my sister (19) and i (16) are house sitting for some people we know and they said we can do whatever in their house. we can have friends over, just no more than 5 and no boys. we agreed so tomorrow night we invited 2 friends over (ages 16 and 17) for dinner and dessert and movies. well i was on myspace and was like "what's up ya'll talk to me" so my friend wrote back and said "call me". so i did. she asked what we were doing. i told her we were house sitting. she jokingly asked if we were throwing any wild parties (she knows that we wouldn't), so i hesitated, but didn't want to lie, so i told her about tomorrow. and she was like, oh that sounds like fun. i thought it was kind of rude to talk about it without inviting her so i asked my sister if she could come to and she said sure. so now my other friend is coming. did i do the right thing? if i didn't invite her would i have been rude to her.it's not like we don't want her here. she is actually the life of any party. but opinions?
2007-05-30 15:40:14 · 13 answers · asked by :) 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
yes, it is very rude....put yourself in their position
"You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view . . . until you climb into his skin and walk around in it."
-Atticus Finch, To Kill a Mockingbird
2007-05-30 16:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You definietly did the right thing. Have you ever been asked by someone you know if you enjoyed the party the other night, only to reply 'What party?!' It' happened to me a few years back coz my pig sister was spreading nasty rumours about me at the time and It really sucked. As a matter of fact I seriously considered overdosing because of it, stupid as it sounds. By inviting her you have proven yourself to be a true loyal friend, you should be proud of yourself, I hope all goes well for you and your sister, and you have a nice time.
2016-05-17 09:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have been rude to talk about the get together and then not invite her. You did the right thing because you brought up the party and so she would have assumed that she was invited. You were in the right by inviting her, and you know that now you will have to be more cautious about who you tell what to.
2007-05-30 15:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by cviperml 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. It would have been rude not to invite her.
2007-05-30 16:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it was a Big Killer Party that was a blow out and you didn't invite her but toled her about it, it would have bin rude but it wasn't it was a small get to gether that you had already planed and thats thats so that was not rude at all in my opinion! ...
Have FUn!
2007-05-30 16:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by Simpley Me! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very rude. I've done it before and its enatable. Tell one person that you were not orriganily inviting and news gets around.
Good luck!
2007-05-30 18:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by Makena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is rude....would you like if someone would have done it to you. You did the right thing.
2007-05-30 16:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think it is rude
2007-05-30 15:43:04 · answer #8 · answered by Urchin 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well you could have said "i am only allowed to have a certain number of people over..i am sorry i can't invite you"
but it was nice of you to invite her
2007-05-30 15:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is rude, but kudos for inviting her.
2007-05-30 17:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋