hi. i'm 13. some of u may say i'm to young but i would like some. i am shy and my b/f is only with b/f g/f stuff. we r both happy. but...i really really want to kiss him but i'm so scared and i just don't WANT TO make this first move . i have NO idea if he even wants to kiss. i want him to kiss me by making the first move though...what do i do? :)
2007-05-30 13:50:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Dont go all the way..Make him wanna kiss you..
dont be sleezy.. just yu should know some guys weak spots.
Just do something that he will find more attractable and find you more irresistable...id help you more but idk the kidd...Just find his weak spot..and Tease it..not too much that people are able to call you a tease just a little.
2007-05-30 13:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember how intense my feelings about my first were. It's that WANTING, without fulfillment, that makes it so intense. I'm 55 now, and a first kiss from a new boyfriend has the same effect.
Who makes the first move has been challenging for centuries. In the last 30 years it has become acceptable for a young lady to do the asking for a first date, or a first kiss. But if you do not yet feel confident about initiating it, then don't worry. The time for your first move may not yet be at hand. As you yourself said, you are both happy as things are. If you push ahead, it may not work out well. So be patient. When the time is right, you will both know.
2007-05-30 21:14:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanne B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be shy too, believe it or not you both are probably thinking the same exact thing. That's how it was with my bf... when we first started dating 4 years ago i wanted to kiss him soo bad and i was like forget this and i kissed him, and he told me later on in the relationship that he wanted to so bad and he's glad i made the first move. Just go for it, i doubt he will get mad or not like the kiss
2007-05-30 20:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Natalie's mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jules you are having way too many EMERGENCIES for a 13 year old. Go talk to your parents. Maybe they can help calm you down. 5 min ago you thought you had some horrible medical condition, now you are worried about your boyfriend kissing you? I think a psychologist visit is in order.
2007-05-30 20:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk about kissing( over the phone) ask him how he feels about the two of you doing it.In fact just tell him you want to.
2007-05-30 20:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol thats okay this is what my girlfriend did to me i was shy to, at the end of the skool day my girlfriend came yupto me we talked blah blah, and then when she said bye i g2g she kissed me on my cheek walked away 20 feet look back and smiled and then kept walking, from then on little kisses deveolped to bigger good bye kiss and then ..........try that it worked for her
2007-05-30 20:57:10 · answer #6 · answered by Spartan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss him. But nothing inappropriate, its ok to want to kiss a boy at your age. also what's wrong with talking to your parents, you don't want to ask perfect strangers this question, believe me.
2007-05-30 20:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by naenae9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him. Just don't go all the way.
2007-05-30 20:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by ANSWER MY QUESTION!! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first boyfriend asked if he could kiss me. Maybe you should just ask him. Nervous but worth it.
2007-05-30 20:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by Amata26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is not a good idea at your age.Focus on your schoolwork.
2007-05-31 00:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋