My fiance and I have been together for 4 years now. We have split a couple of times in the past. We are from a big city in FL, last time we split he moved to a small town in GA. After a couple of months I followed him up here. I have lived here for 8 months now and am depressed and hate it here, he knows this but it seems like he doesnt care. We have talked about moving back many times I want to go he doesnt he has told me many times we can move back but always says he was just saying it at the point in time. Now I am 4 months pregnant, and alone I have no family and no friends. I just cant take it any more all I do is cry. How do I get him to move back with me. I dont want to go without him, but I know me being like this is not healthy for me or the baby.
2007-05-30 12:38:03 · 8 answers · asked by Deja 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
#1 you have a completely separate obligation now... a baby who did not ask to be here. Support appears to be the best thing for you right now. Move back and if he comes, make sure its for the family, not just the baby. If he doesn't, then this is one situation that you will have to put under your SuperMommy cape(apron) lol. You have a little one coming that will need your positive, upbeat, authentically encouraging attitude. You nor the baby deserves whatever nonchalant attitude you've been getting. He may come around later but he needs to know you are stronger than what he is tying to portray. He needs to appreciate what you have to offer before he can respect it.
Love you and all that you have to offer, now and when motherhood sinks in!!
God Bless
2007-05-30 12:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by StrawBerryShortCake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to tell you this because I was in that sitiuation. I got my now baby dad to come stay with me but after he came back i still wasn't happy. So what i did was end it. It's better now for me and my baby. Maybe your just feeling this way because your pregeant. I don't want you to think that just because you 2 have a baby it doesn't mean that he'll be there for-ever. and if you love him then let him go because it seems like he's either with you for your money or your booty but it doesn't sseem like he's still in love with you, don't get me wrong he may still love you and be there for you and the baby but right now you need to talk to him and let him know how you feel and that could help your realtionship and that might get him to move back with. Some of the things that i've said aren't to hurt you but to help you read it twice if you can and try and see where i'm coming from.
2007-05-30 12:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by hot_mommy17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a million/2 the family members approves of the flow, and it somewhat is greater inexpensive for a greater more suitable room, i could say, decide for it. Getting greater for his money could be an progression to his life. Now how relating to the food? Are they finished food or snacks. Do they get fruit every day. And what approximately pill dispension. Is somebody in charge of that, to get rid of errors. some places have the overseeing of an RN. yet in addition many places can not have the money for the amenities. And does the dispenser of the tablets, placed on rubber gloves for sanitary motives? there is plenty to evaluate earlier you displace him. determine he can cope with the transition, so he does not get afraid after transferring. I actually have a pal, who died 2 days after her flow. She became into dealt with badly by potential of team in that wing, and he or she went right into a catatonic state of suggestions. And did not comprehend her daughter. and then she died here day. So weigh issues intently.
2016-10-30 06:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you let yourself get pregnant? Can you care for the baby alone? Were you trying to trap him into staying with you? Be honest with your answers.
He doesn't really want you as a girlfriend. I suggest you move on. And DON'T get pregnant again.
2007-05-30 12:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your desire to go home is magnified now the your pregnant and more sensitive to family matters...however, your choices have not changed....I take it your still not married....if married I'd say your place is with your husband for better or worse but if he hasn't honored your relationship...then make arrangements to go home with or without him...you might base this decision on whats best for the childs welfare.
2007-05-30 12:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move back home and just hope that he will follow. Do what is best for you and the baby.
2007-05-30 12:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's unfortunate that your fiance has not prioritized your relationship. It sounds like he is unhappy with something, give him time and space. Go back to where you need to live. Get yourself healthy. Go to where your support is, go to your friends and family. You need to worry about yourself and your unborn baby. Good luck.
2007-05-30 12:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by wondryrgrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move back home
2007-05-30 13:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋