i'm 14 and am getting ready to be a sophmore. (today was the last day of school of freshman year!)
well one of my good guy friends whom i have a crush on is leaving for college aug. 1st of course i want to write him a letter but what should i say?? PLEASE help. cuz i like one of his friends/my best guy friend who is going to be a sophmore like me and goes to taekwondo with us both. (he is SUPER SHY though.)
so what do i do!!!!
PLEASE HELP!
it's KILLING my feelings
but i DONT want to hurt the shy guy either.
AHHHHH!
please help!
thank you!
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2007-05-30 11:31:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
i'll be 15 in september. and i'll be a sophmore in aug. TODAY WAS THE LAST DAY OF FRESHMAN YEAR. so technically im NOT a freshman yet but i'll be a sophmore soon.
2007-05-30 11:39:23 · update #1
so im almost 15 and he JUST turned 18. so hes kinda older! :]
2007-05-30 11:40:20 · update #2
yess the shy guy and i like each other
2007-05-30 11:45:24 · update #3
What you should do is NOT write him a letter. Honestly, if he's going off to college, he's looking at a whole new school full of adult women, who are on the same intellectual level as he is...Not to mention that they're legal to have sex with, and you wouldn't be (that's not the only motivation for guys, but it's a big one!)
Think of it this way...him getting a note from you would be like you getting a note from a guy in sixth grade. If you got that note, would you start dating the guy in sixth grade? Assume that this college-age man would have the same response to your letter.
Save yourself the embarrassment, and focus on guys who are (a) your age, and (b) available.
2007-05-30 11:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so you like two guys, and one is going to college. I assume the college dude isn't your age and is starting college like most people. Having said that, forget about that guy. If you date him as a minor, he could go to jail. For this letter you want to write, just write whatever you want, but don't put him in a position that could get him in trouble. So stay away from romantic thoughts.
As for the other guy, you didn't say he liked you, but you say you don't want to hurt him. Well, does he like you or not? Regardless, if you're interested in him, I say ask him out. At least he'll be around for you to actually date.
2007-05-30 11:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by Opal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like the "shy guy" at least a little...because if you do, I think it's better that you stick with him. The other guy is going off to college and you may never see him again or he may not take you as serious as the guy closest to your age, and then you will have lost both. I suggest you give the "shy" guy an opportunity, and if you think he is too shy, then understand his personality and you try to make a move, there is nothing wrong with that......hope this helps. "Hakuna Matata"
2007-05-30 11:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by Bella Black Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Through action isn't good enough. But you could give him deep stares after a hug and if he's interested he may move in for a kiss. If you want to let him know quicker, just tell him you like him. So he knows for sure. A kiss doesn't mean as much anymore with how society is now.
2016-05-17 07:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww honey, First things first. relax! Having a crush is scary but its really okay. Maybe since this guy is your friend you can just try to use your girl skills to figure out how he feels about you. Does he call you all the time? try to spend time with you? make you feel special? If you can't tell, just ask him whats going on with him and how he feels about girls (and then be like AHEM meeeee!!!)
But dont let it get you crazy honey. Youre young and in time a hottie will be eyeing you. Trust me, i was such an awkward teenager and now im dating an abercrombie model. Yaaayyyy!!!!
Good luck cutie, but whatever you do, be yourself!
2007-05-30 11:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont need a college boy friend and he dosnt need a high school sophmore girl friend thats 14
2007-05-30 11:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by st_racer167 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that is just pushing the age limit dealy one he is in collage and your almost 15 come on that is illgal now so go for someone your age there are so many boys and i no right now you like him i no you will find smoeone else to big of age diff me and my girl friend is like 1.5 years
2007-05-30 13:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by Partyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im shy too say hav a great time and realy sweet stuff
but how r u 14 and a sophmore
2007-05-30 11:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it. If he's off to college, you're "jail-bait" and he'll end up in prison. Unless that's what you want is your biggest crush to be behind bars.
2007-05-30 11:38:35 · answer #9 · answered by Zak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur in high school-- u dont need a college bf- go out with BOYS ur age... its better that way. plus most older guys r jerks ;^)
2007-05-30 11:44:40 · answer #10 · answered by cheryl l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋