Mii best friend and i used to like the same guy but that guy (which is mii current bf) didnt like her and now she is pushing herself on him even though she know that we are together !!!!What i mean is she is hanging out with him entirely 2 much,"stalking him" and just always in the way .She made me so mad cus she even went as far as stealing all of the emergency forms off our teacher's desk just to find his address and number !!!!She is always butting in2 our buisness and i am getting pissed off at her but what should i do?how can i tell her nicely to go away and stop annoying us without her being affended or with out going completely off on her ? Should i tell her that he doesnt want her once and for all or should i just through a b***h fit and not talk to her again?SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
2007-05-30 11:00:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Have HIM tell her to leave the two of you alone because he is NOT interested in her. That he doesn't like her and never will. And he'll report her as a stalker if she doesn't stop. You should report to the teacher that she took the confidential emergency forms of the teacher's desk as well.
She may be very jealous because he is taking you away from her, so she is trying to break it up.
2007-05-30 11:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are getting mad at your friend, then you are letting your friend get the best of you. She is being very immature. I think that she figures that if she can't have that guy, then you shouldn't either. Anyways, you need to not let her get to you. Otherwise, you are giving into her. If you talk to her, the chances are you will just get into a big fight that may actually result in the end of your friendship. She is just being very immature. You just need to be more mature than her. If she is budding into your conversations, you can do two things. One will probably work, so you have to figure out which one will work the best. 1. Whenever she buds in, you could completely ignore her. It may not be too mature, but it could work. 2. You could ack like it doens't bother you a bit. Just talk to her like you normally would. If you take the fun out of her getting you mad, she will probably stop. Again, one of those should work so you should figure ot which one will work best. Hope that helps!
2007-05-30 11:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by Bobert R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try spending way more time with your bf then your friend. u definately shouldnt be friends with her anymore if shes doing that to you. if she sees that you are spending more time with him all the time, she might back off. ask your bf if he likes her as a friend and calmly explain to him that he needs to tell her to back off a little bit and if iti doesnt work, try to make your friend jealous
2007-05-30 11:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their is no nice way to say the truth, but you have to. at least if you love youre bf.(sorry)
2007-05-30 11:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by Ana M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop talking to her and dont let her affect ur relationship
2007-05-30 11:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by Lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋