I had to let you know that the last update to my question is not true! I did not marry that sick bastard. I moved out of state a year after my miscarriage and met my wonderful husband! My ex has not changed and did not think he was doing baby Evan any good! He is a malicious man and tracked me down last year. He almost killed me until my husband stepped in and beat him up. The only thing i know is that he is miserable and suffering in jail. I was horrified when i read that last update, i have absolutely no clue who would write that! Only two of my friends know my password and i don't think either of them would play such a sick prank.
2007-05-30 10:21:47 · 20 answers · asked by Jayelle 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Baby Names
I don't want to delete the question because i still want people's opinions about naming my little girl Hallee Evan, i just wanted to let them know that i didnt marry the man who killed my son. I wrote everything else except the last additional details!
2007-05-30 10:30:50 · update #1
horrible, why don't you just delete the question?
2007-05-30 10:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by sweetiepi 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
That's horrible that someone did that to your question. You should seriously change your password.
As far as the name is concerned: Hallee Evan(n)a. You can still honor Evan but allow Hallee to be a different person.
2007-06-04 17:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by LadeeLuvleeLox 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be great to use your sons name for your daughter, not only s it keeping your sons memory alive, but it is also including your daughter into his memory, it will show your daughter that you love her just as much as you loved your son.
I have a friend who misscarried a baby at 5 months, she named her then went on to ahve 2 more daughters, she used the lost babies first name as a middle name for her eldes daughter and the middle name of the baby for the middle name of her second daughter.
As for someone else osting something about your personal life on here....ignore it, were here to answer the questions you post on here, not judge you about how you live your life. I hope you go on to have a happy life with your new family and im glad to see you have come out of a bad relationship in on piece.
God bless and good luck.
2007-06-07 05:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by m.axine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You certainly have weathered a horrendous storm and I am glad for you that the sick bastard is in jail. I am glad you have found a peaceful haven with your husband and hope that psycho stays locked up.
As for your beautiful baby to be, you need to name her what is comfortable for you and her dad. My personal choice would be to give her her own name. Your son was honored with his own name and it should stay his. I would plant a tree and name it Evan's Tree so you can bring his name up often and your daughter will be able to honor her brother without feeling she had to carry part of him with her. It may be a heavy feeling for her.
I am sure what ever you decide to do about the name, you will honor your son's memory.
2007-06-06 01:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm personally i don't think halee evan is a good boys name.no affense but it sounds more like a girl name.but hey if u like then then go ahead.acutally come to think bout it its an alright name. Because its a very rare name. So you will never lose him in a store or anything.and about ur baby daddy sorry to hear bout that. Put a restraining order on him if it is that bad and get custidy of your son. If he is as dangerous and he sound he should not be around you or your son.
Nikki
2007-06-07 09:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evan should be honored and always remembered. Hallee should be free to have her own identity apart from such a violent past.
2007-06-04 04:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you know deep in your heart that it was not and is not your fault you lost your son. I am so sorry that you had to go through so much.
I think using Evan as a middle name for your daughter is a very beautiful way of honoring your son. When your daughter is old enough to understand you'll be able to explain to her that she would have had a big brother and she get's to honor him forever. How special will that be to her? I bet she'll be honored and happy to carry his name. I would not change the spelling of Evan...keep it just the way it would have been.
Congratulations and good luck!
2007-05-31 00:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jacob's Mommy (Plus One) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yea I would say delete it but its - in voting ... If u didnt write that it has 2 b 1 of ur so-called friends ... which hopefully u stay away from. Back 2 ur quest. - If ur new husband doesnt mind -- I say definitely name ur new baby after ur son. Its like Anna Nicole Smith. I think it would b comforting 2 u.
Congratulations on a health baby n ur new husband...
2007-06-07 12:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try Hallee Evelyn, or another middle name that sounds like Evan.
2007-06-04 22:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy Mama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I still think that Evan would be a good middle name! Forget about your ex...move on and enjoy your new baby to come and the new hubby! Congrats...and best wishes!
2007-06-04 17:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by poopsiemom031904 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is an answer to your other question...I think that Evyn and Evelyn are beautiful names and if you want to pay tribute to your son, you have every right to do that!!!! My Granny's name was Evelyn, and she was a strong beautiful woman. Either name is a good name!!! I am sorry that you have friends that are like that and would add stuff like that. You should get far away from a man who would push you down the stairs to get you to miscarry...that is aweful! Well good luck to you and let us know what you decide to do!!!
2007-05-30 17:33:32 · answer #11 · answered by Amy V 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋