I like girls, however, I wouldn't mind if I guy worshipped my feet or gave me a massage. In fact, I would enjoy that. But then again, I'm kind of desperate for that, so I wouldn't mind if it came from girl or guy. I can't see myself in a relationship with another guy, but getting a massage or something from a guy is something I would like. Someone told me that this means I'm bi.
I'm confused. Am I gay, bi or straight?
2007-05-30 09:31:55 · 28 answers · asked by Jason 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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I can't see myself kissing another guy or having sex with another guy. I can only see myself kissing and having sex with girls. In fact, I think guys kissing each other is kind of weird and such.
2007-05-30 09:39:44 · update #1
Sounds like you are bi to me. If you can't see yourself doing anything sexual with a guy though, which you didn't specifically mention, you might be straight. I think most straight guys, myself included, would not like having another guy massage them as you described, but maybe you just feel differently about that than I do.
You are definitely not gay if you are into girls, a truly homosexual person is only interested in their own sex.
2007-05-30 09:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by Kyleontheweb 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You said you can't see yourself with another guy which means there probably is no "stiff" response. Is that the case when thinking of a woman? I don't think you are gay or even bi.
I think you haven't had physical contact or attention for a while and when your love tank runs low the mind starts to search for alternative fuels that may be more available.
Gain confidence Gain a girl and Get laid.
A massage is just a massage. I get massages from my sister. Does that make my incestuous?
2007-05-30 10:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by InkBlot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight
2016-04-01 05:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult to say.
Your sexual "identity" would be discovered by how you are sexually turned on (e.g. an erection).
It sounds like you have a foot fetish and don't mind who you got involved with to further that fetish.
Being given a massage by a guy won't mean you are gay unless you get sexually aroused by it (and him). It would further be confirmed if he were to make the massage a bit more "personal".
If a guy doesn't get you going but a girl does then you are most likely straight. If both get you up then you are Bisexual.
In the meantime there is nothing that says you can't enjoy finding out which way you go.
2007-05-30 09:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK if you dont want to have a relationship with a guy you are not gay. Now if you meen enjoy getting a message from a guy that is you friend that would not make you bi. It would just make you a good friend.
So if that's the case you are straight!
2007-05-30 09:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how old are you- that has some play into things.
When you say you wouldn't mind a guy worshiping your feet - do you mean that literally?
As far as a massage I can se why you would like one from a man better - they have stronger hands.
2007-05-30 09:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bi? Gay?...not necessarily. Could be you just enjoy the feeling of power that happens when someone else is in an inferior position (rub my feet? give me a massage?). You may just be a power junkie who's in denial about your need to be in charge....
2007-05-30 09:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by Houston 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i just think you need a massage by a grandma grandpa homo straight i don't think it matters u just need some massage therapy and get the kinks out everywhere thats what is going on. Simply find a therapist near u and get a move on before you do something wierd.
2007-05-30 09:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by Corey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want to make one thing clear.. im NOT gay! this is my take on what you asked other than the fact that you sound extremly confused!
if you have sexual thoughts for men and men only you are gay!!
if you have sexual thoughts about men and women you are bi!
if you have sexual thoughts about a women and no men then you are straight!
if you want a man to worship your feet and give you a message and you are a man then you are just plain confused and freaky!
thanks for the 2 points!
2007-05-30 09:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by M.J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to kiss or have sex with a guy you are very well straight.
2007-05-30 09:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by A Journey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋