Woman needs help in the bedroom?

Question

My husband has rheumatoid arthritis and high blood pressure and has a lot of difficulty often just getting around.

He has been very satisfying for serval years and still is when we are intimate. The problem is he is just not in the mood very often. He complains about hurting and he just wants to sleep. He wants to just lay beside each other and seldom anything physical. I want to be faithful to him and I would never think of going somewhere else. But I have needs. What can I do when he is hurting so bad since sometimes this may last for days. He often says he just doesn't have the energy.

Answer 1

Invest in taking some Damania, Yohimbe Bark, Vitamin E and Zinc, Ginseng.

Invest in a c0ckring [leather (leather,velcro) or silicone].

Answer 2

He needs to get a doctor who will get rid of the pain. There is no good medical reason for him to be in this pain. It is malpratice.

The lack of energy may be due to something else. Has he discussed this with a doctor, preferably a geriatrician?

Answer 3

Sorry to hear of your husband's trouble. It sounds like you days of being intimate with him are likely numbered.

If you wish to remain faithful, but still have needs - I might suggest getting yourself a toy and learning how to use it.

No shame in it and you're not stepping out on him.

Answer 4

Get a toy. This way if you are still wanting pleasure and he hurts you can do it yourself or he can and not take as much work. I sell them. if you would like a catalog. let me know. my email is [e-mail]

Answer 5

maybe you cold do all the work like get on top so you control everything and he can just lay back and enjoy! also, you could buy sex toys and pleasure yourself.

Answer 6

Probably some adult toys

Answer 7

porn and toys save marriages!

Answer 8

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