I know this isn't exactly a "gay question" but I post every other question in here, so why should i go start talking to the straight people now?? Anyway, do people ever just irk you to the point of no return? How do u get over it and just continue with life without telling them off?
I'm in a situation where a few so-called friends of mine have pissed me off and the friendship has been severed. I would love to just move on and live life BUT one of them wont leave me the hell alone. (random irritating text messages and emails) I'm trying my hardest to be calm & mature but im 2 minutes away from ripping her a new one. Any suggestions on how to politely tell her that she blew it and to never allow her fingers to dial my number again?
2007-05-30 06:19:36 · 13 answers · asked by Raynebow_Diva 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe you should just tell her, "I realize and understand that you are trying to make up with me, but I just can't go there with you. What happened really upset me, and I'm not ready for a friendship with you again. And I can't promise that I ever will be."
After that, she should leave you alone. And is she doesn't, you would be perfectly within you rights to rip her a new one, or two.
2007-05-30 07:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by pjonkml 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 16:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the hardest part of being an adult is knowing when to stop being Mr/Ms Nice Guy. Frankly, if she doesn't take the silent treatment for an answer, perhaps a not so nice reminder of "The Incident" will refresh her memory. If not, that's grounds, as far as I am concerned, to take the gloves off and really sever the ties permanently.
Some people mistake polite for being weak and allowing that type of behavior to continue.
2007-05-30 06:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Hey, text them one last time and make it very clear that this is the end of the friendship. From that point on, do not respond... If you get a message from them, ignore it... Do not read it...Delete it and move on...Don't answer the phone calls. DO NOTHING!!!! DO NOT MAKE ANY ATTEMPTS TO COMMUNICATE!!! They will get the message,
2007-05-30 08:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I ever got was when I was in therapy and while at the time I did think much of it because I was so angry. It has stuck with me and has help me everyday.
You cannot control what other people do or say. You can only control how you react to what other people do or say.
2007-05-30 06:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if this fried who you said blew it with you is trying to message and email you it means that she still cares about you and is trying to save the friendship. you need to understand that your friends irritating behaviour is coming from a good place. maybe she is so scared that you won't ever talk to her again that she is trying to do her all to prevent that from happening. so the good thing is that this person who won't leave you alone is willing to go through all that trouble to stop you from ending the friendship but the bad news is that maybe she doesn't understand that there is nothing to do anymore...
2007-05-30 07:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hi honey! It's easy for me to say just delete the txts and email without reading them, but I know it's hard for you to do.
Tell her to back off and let you work things out right now. Maybe she'll take that easier than just cutting things off totally. Of course, you'll be cuttting things off totally anyway.....she just doesn't have to know it right away.
2007-05-30 06:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by FTW 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If someone hurt me that bad, I wouldn't bother with polite. I'd go straight for direct.
2007-05-30 06:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Raynebow I am going through the EXACT same thing. EXACT...hit me up sometime...we can talk about it together calmly and maturely and then get ghetto LOL
2007-05-30 09:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by ☮ wickey wow wow ♀♀ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In this instance no communication is the best policy.
2007-05-30 06:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋