is there a possibility to fall out of love with your husband?

Answer 1

No... I personally don't think so... I think the things we say to each other hurts the love... Eventually no matter who you fall in love with, the spark starts to fade... And we tend to take love for granted and don't always tell each other how nice they look and how much you love them... As humans we neglect those we love the most... If people would put more effort on their marriage as much as or even more than their job, there would be a lower divorce rate.

Answer 2

Of course. This happens because as we get older, we change. You change and so does your spouse. That is why it is important to spend quality time with your spouse doing things together. Building new common interests in important. If you don't make an effort to bond stronger over the years, you will likely grow apart. If you are falling out of love then you have to act quickly. Either find some ways to bond with him or you're going to find yourself thinking about divorce. Before you divorce, I really suggest you take a look at talking to someone who can help your marriage. Look at some old pictures of the two of you. Write yourself a journal about something wonderful you did. Write a list of romantic things you did together. If you don't have old pictures, then start making some pictures of places you go. Be sure you take pictures when you are happy and doing something fun. Hang these pictures around your house. It would be great if you already have many of these pictures. Seeing these pictures will remind you and your husband that you once had an amazing love. I really hope you work it out. I know that I have many regrets about my own marriage. It ended very recently and only now do I realize what I should have done to try to repair it. Best wishes to you and your spouse.

Answer 3

I agree with the people who say it is love that gets you through the times you don't feel in love. Everyone gets bored of everyone sooner or later. But for the love of God make it work..what is marriage if they all end in divorce. Don't give up, try and make it work..spice things up..get outta the rut your in..change of lifestyle..there are more options besides to run away from your problems..

Answer 4

Yes, the trick is to try and find new ways to fall back in love with your husband. Try dating (your husband) again.

Answer 5

Love is more than a feeling, it is also a choice and a committment.
Feelings can wax and wane, you know that already. Too many people divorce because the feeling leaves. That's shortsighted.
Is it possible for feelings to change? Yes. But remember, there's more to love than feeling.

Answer 6

Ofcourse there is! People have this mistaken idea that because he/she was in love w/ another person and got married that they are to stay happily in love until death. WRONG! It could simply have been you got married too young and now you both have grown/changed. Whatever the reason, there is nothing wrong w/ falling out of love with someone. What's wrong is staying w/ that person when you don't love him/her.

Answer 7

yes I did after 17 years

Answer 8

OOOOOHHHH yeah. I did after 10 years. People need to grow together as a couple. If one or either of them aren't interested then the marriage is most likely doomed.

Marriage, friendship, love all of it are like plants, don't water them and give them attention they die.

Answer 9

Yes. Marriage takes effort to keep passion and love alive.

Answer 10

Yes, my husband wasn;'t honest with me when we got married, and it's really hard to feel the same as I did when we met, knowing that he is not who he said he is.