we know each other for 9 years but we never see each other for 8 years but we have contact at the end i know that he is going to merry some ine i love him too much
2007-05-30 03:46:43 · 22 answers · asked by ljullite b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
okay you have to do this hollywood style
during their wedding as soon as the church guy says "if anyone objects to this marrige, speak now or forever hold your peace" Barge in there and say "I Object!" That would be kick ***! oh ya record it and send it to an audition. you can be an actress and be rich!
2007-05-30 05:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by chunkymonkeythatisfunky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, first of all "merry" is what Santa Clause is. You want to "marry" him.
Second of all, if you haven't seen this guy in 8 years, how in love with him are you? Honestly, you don't even know him anymore. I certainly am not the person I was 8 years ago. Don't ruin his happiness because of a memory. Move on with your life.
If you love him so darn much, then let him be happy.
2007-05-30 10:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by leaptad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation so I know its driving you nuts and all you want to do is tell him everything you feel and hope he chooses you in the end..but in the end my guess is he probably wouldn't choose you and that will scar you for along long time..as hard as it is to do just let him go ..he seems to have found someone else and you wouldn't want to get in the middle.. specially if you weren't chose you will feel like a fool..and not seeing him for 8 yrs ...how do you even know you still feel the same for him? I will give you an example...I was in love with his guy for 11yrs and most of that time I never seen him ..he went into the marines for 4yrs and then when he got out we hooked up but shortly after we stopped and he moved in with a girl and was about to get married..now to me he was my soulmate ,my one true love, he ended up not marring her and we talk to this day and the two of us together but in the end hes turned out not the be the night in shining armor I had put him out to be and in fact he was an average joe..I feel in love with the fairy tale of him but in fact he was not that person at all..how well do you really know him? all his flaws,his likes,dislikes,if u dont know him then theres a chance your gambling on a cards you have yet to see ..on the other hand if you do know alot about him then look at them closely and ask yourself if your willing to bet on those..another words is he worth all that you will have to do?what if you had him and were about to marry him and some girl came out of no where after 8 yrs to try and win him ,,how would that make you feel? What words would you have to tell this woman?Those words are what you should be telling yourself..good luck with it all..sometimes its not holding on that makes us strong ...but letting go..
2007-05-30 11:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look Ms. Roberts, this isn't "My best friend's Wedding." You can't just decide after 9 years your in love and this person should be all yours. even when committed to another. If you were the one, you'd be at the alter with this so called love of your life. Stop being afraid of love and start to live a little. maybe you will find your real lover. one just for you. Don't ever believe you don't deserve it. you do!
2007-05-30 10:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by Msright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is this quote that says something like "there's nothing worse than watching the person you love, fall in love with someone else". Well, the thing is, there is absolutely nothing you can do. He doesn't love you or he would be marrying you. Love him enough to let him go. Anything you do is only hurtful to him and his significant other.
2007-05-30 10:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by Sheena M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on. why would you marry someone you haven't seen in 8 years. this person is not the same person from 8 years ago, you are trapped a time warp. go find someone in the present to fall in love with.
2007-05-30 10:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by Treepe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel.... if you havent already. If he loves you and the feeling is mutual.... dont let it happen. She'll never be happy if he loves someone else anyway. If the feeling is not mutual and he just thinks of you as a friend then let him go and if you really love him let him be happy.
2007-05-30 10:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by bronxbella1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel a special connection with this person? Do they feel the same way too? Try talking to that person. Clear the air before the wedding. If he loves this other person very much tho,,you have to let go.
2007-05-30 10:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he really loves someone else and it's time for you to move on. Don't try to get in between him and his future wife. Stay out!
2007-05-30 10:49:07 · answer #9 · answered by BAnne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone, and let him be happy. All you're going to do is screw him and his future wife up. Move on and find someone else.
2007-05-30 10:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋