2007-05-30 03:16:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
True love balances it
2007-05-30 13:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by someone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
True love dissolves ego... actually it dissolves two egos and fusses them into a single ego that becomes the "us" in a relation.
The above is a romantic view and a "should be" view of things... I can see a zero divorce/separation statistic if things were that way. Reality... egos die hard... even to make a better world/life.
May all your egos dissolve into true love!
2007-05-30 03:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love should have nothing to do with egos. If it fueled an ego then how could you call it a love emotion because that would not be the purpose behind the affection.
2007-05-30 03:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it fuels the ego, but in a positive way. When you are in love (a healthy love relationship), you don't feel less like yourself or lose your identity in any way. Loss of your own identity in a relationship is the sign of an unhealthy relationship. Love should make you feel your identity strengthened, and it should make you an even better person than you were before.
However, while your ego is strengthened by love, love also teaches you how to recognize other things that are more important than yourself. Love breeds selflessness, because in a true love, you care as much about your partner as you do about yourself.
2007-05-30 05:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
true love never breaks down a person it builds up both orf the lovers as on gives the otherrevieves anbd back and forth it should go with true love .but in most relationship it is a take and be taken from kind of love this kind of love dissolves the ego
2007-05-30 04:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by henryredwons 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think true love dissolves the ego, while extreme lust fuels the ego.
2007-05-30 04:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by FIGJAM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely pure, true love would dissolve the ego, not fuel it. The person now doesn't exist just for themselves, but for the one that they truly love. They try to be more conscious of their fallibility in hopes that they can make improvements on themselves in order to make their loved one happy.
2007-05-30 03:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by Raingirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is not at the level of the learned ego, it is WHAT you love, i.e. your passion. Love is WHAT and WHO you truly are and can only be realized in the absence of the ego.
2007-05-30 08:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by MysticMaze 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In true love, you love each other for who they are and no ego is involved.
In tennis, true love will only damage your ego
2007-05-30 03:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by spinner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly both.
Love is an irrational, often ill defined emotion, and within it's context one who feels it, feels elation and paranoia in the same thought or breath, or heartbeat.
A most base analogy might be a Daisy,,,and picking off its petals..."She/He loves me, she/he loves me not.
Steven Wolf
2007-05-30 03:29:46 · answer #10 · answered by DIY Doc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋