Im not having fun just because im thinking im gonna loose it one day (im so pretty ) i don't think i will accept growing old.
is it a phobia or what ??
i think about it everyday
i don't want to be ugly ...no one want me then ..!
i want to change the way i think but i can;t
2007-05-28 22:35:09 · 12 answers · asked by black cat 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
It sounds like you are just now realizing your mortality. Unless something unfortunate happens, you will get old and die so it is best to enjoy the good things in your life while you can.
That's life
2007-05-28 22:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by ©2009 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are so shallow that you think looks alone make a good life, maybe you shouldn't live past 35. Find something worthwhile that you can commit to and life takes on a whole new meaning. I'm 53 and expect to be enjoying another 40-50 years of life.
2007-05-29 20:37:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain, seriously. I turned 30 in April.
I keep telling myself, better to be a young 30 than an old 20, right?
RIGHT?
Really though, it is scary, and I think it's perfectly normal. However, if you are so worried about it that it is affecting your ability to function, you probably want to consult with a doctor to get some kind of psychiatric help.
Also, 30 really is the new 20. Look at the stars of Desperate Housewives. Most 20 year olds would kill to look like good, and most of the actresses are pushing 40.
2007-05-29 05:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinSac 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dear ;
come to terms with your mind that one day as time goes on,U will become damn old unless U die prematurely-and death is unavoidable.
However they,BEAUTY IS SKIN DEEP.As long as U have good behaviour,no one will abandone U even if U are becoming less pretty.
Try to keep fit and drinking ENOUGH green Tea to reduce on the aging process.
2007-05-29 06:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by Edward Great 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Black Cat,
Ageing (growing old) does not mean looking ugly. Growing old is a process, no one can stop, but ageing GRACEFULLY is upto us. You should take care of your diet - eating habits, drink plenty of water and when you are old, you would look as gracious and charming as you are looking at 30.
2007-05-29 05:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You totally need to stop being so self obsessed! EVERYONE is going to get old if you like it or not. Who cares what you look like! There are much more important things to think about. Get over yourself and live your life to the full before its too late
2007-05-29 05:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by eat my try 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is life.No one can change anything.Even if u r old u will be beautiful if u r so pretty.So think it positively & don't get upset thinking about that
2007-05-29 05:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by keerthana j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be so superficial, you'll still be able to have fun when your older regardless of whether your pretty or not
2007-05-29 05:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is the alternative to getting old? Seriously, there is not much you can do about it. But if it is freaking you out that much, you should get counselling to deal
2007-05-29 05:42:02 · answer #9 · answered by Kaisar 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im scared of getting old too and im only 20
2007-05-29 14:14:22 · answer #10 · answered by Just Me 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋