are there people or pressures, etc in your life that have a negative influence on you? such as neighbors, friends family alccohol, food?
do you allow these to control your life at times? how?
how do you feel about their influences in your life? why?
2007-05-28 22:32:46 · 11 answers · asked by sandy 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I am in control of me. The scientific "correct" term is locust of control. It all depends on whether you believe your enviroment, people, friends, family, or life in general. It all depends on what you choose to believe. The French philosopher Jean Paul Satre once wrote: Men are condemned to be free. Because once he is in the world, he is reponsible for everything he does."
I am responsible for the choice I make. And I accept the consequences. I personally think it's stupid to blame anyone/anything else.
2007-05-28 22:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there will definitely always people who would pull you down, consciously or unconsciously, regardless of whether they mean it or not. On these times, take a pause, and see if there may be any truth to what they may claim. If not, so be it. Let them. It won't definitely help you to satisfy them, especially that these people will definitely not your family, friends, or, generally loved ones. If there is no truth to their claim, since they don't mean anything to you, what have you to loose? They're loosers dull enough to realize their own incapacities.
2007-05-31 17:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph Ian Macalino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people respect me I will deal with them freely but if they deal with me in a bad way, then nothing will affect me cause i am not really affected by the outer environment.
In brief, NEVER EVER I AM AFFECTED BY THE PEOPLE'S NEGATIVE EFECT BECAUSE THEY WILL NEVER AFFECT ME NEITHER POSITIVELY NOR NEGATIVELY.
Really this is the best thing for me cause usually people cause me confusion and make me fuzzy and headache as most of them are talking so much and i hate talking too much. I wish that i can tell them please silence. May be my opinion is so strange as alot of people don't like my behaviour in that way
2007-05-29 05:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by Radical Vampire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have my familly/parents who gives advice and I advice them depending upon the situation. But there is nothing which controls over me and I don't get influenced either by other's intelligence and so forth
2007-05-29 05:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by nimesh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god, my employer and the bank. at some time everyone allows someone to control them but ultimately the responsibility falls on me for my future and i have not lost sight of that.
2007-05-29 05:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only me, I'm the only one in control of myself.
I don't allow anybody else to be.
2007-05-29 06:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by sweetera 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sandy is controlling my life.
2007-05-29 05:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
work/ school... tells me when i can go out when i have to get up and when i can go on vacation.
crap huh?
2007-05-29 05:42:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cat tells me what to do!
2007-05-29 05:41:02 · answer #9 · answered by SHAWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart. I wear my heart on my sleeve... Don't do it. You be abuse and heart broken. lol
2007-05-29 05:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋