How many years after marriage is it ideal to have kids... wht should be th correct age to concieve right without any complications during child birth... n how should one prepare oneself mentally before the couple decides to have a baby.....
2007-05-28 21:39:21 · 10 answers · asked by purpleflower 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
physical age is not important as long as you are less than 40 its mental readiness and financial status
2007-05-28 21:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer this. I was married almost 2 years when I got pregnant. I had my daughter when I was 26 years old, my husband was 28. My daughter is now 2 1/2 and we are planning for our 2nd child. I didn't have any major complications and you are never 100% prepared for a baby but when you're pregnant you bond with your baby and it's amazing how nature takes over and you quickly learn what to do (I also read a lot, too, which helped reassure that I was doing the right thing). My husband and I traveled a bit and lived it up a little before we decided to have kids and we don't have any regrets. I absolutely love being a mom and can't imagine my life any different. Good luck!
2007-05-29 05:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, I do not believe there is any correct answer for this. The best time to have a baby is when you are (both) ready. Mental preparation comes in the 9 months, but you're never fully ready until the baby is here and even then you get scared and confused. Instinct kicks in 9 out of 10 times though.
2007-05-29 04:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by ~*~Malarie~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnancy is a beautiful thing. My husband and I were married 16 months after we got married before I became pregnant, so just over 2 years after she was born.
I think that it is extremely important to have 1-3 years of just you and your husband prior to becoming parents. You need time to adjust to married life and sharing and just all the things attached to marriage. You need alone time so when you do have kids you and your husband will have a strong bonded relationship as husband and wife.
I think that you both have to agree when it is the right time to have a baby. You need to both want it equally. Once you are ready you will just know. You will not have any doubts, just happiness!
Best of luck!
2007-05-29 06:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by MaynorTeam23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best age to conceive is from 18 to 23 years. Otherwise plan a baby within a year of marriage.
2007-05-29 04:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by Mahesh R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any time after 20 and before 40.
2007-05-29 04:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Between 20 and 30 yrs of age is good for most woman. The healthy ovum and the overall health of most people is best at this time.
2007-05-29 11:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by shankease 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no correct age to have a child! alot of my friends were between 16-23 when they had their babies! i was 18 when i had my son. my best friend was 16 when she had her first daughter and 20 when she had her second daughter!
It just depends on you! have a child when you feel its the right time!
Good luck
2007-05-29 08:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until someone gets a good job,and until you forgot to..use the rubber or withdraw..just kidding man..Until you get a good career,dont have kids when you're having a mid-life crisis..
2007-05-29 04:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say right after collage
2007-05-29 08:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by ~♥~♫~Jess~♫~♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋