Oriented exclusively to one sex for, well, sex... and oriented exclusively to the other sex for romantic love?
2007-05-28 21:11:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'll expand... I think guys are great to be friends with but too different (ie assholes) mentally to have a serious romantic relationship with... but I like how their body is made for sex.
I want to be romantically involved with women, but the sex just isn't as satisfying for me, and I don't think it ever will be.
2007-05-28 21:23:07 · update #1
Jess: Why is it unhealthy to see sex as separate from love? Isn't that just your opinion, like how christian fundies think any homosexuality is unhealthy and can be "cured"?? HMM?
2007-05-28 21:25:10 · update #2
I believe that to say that you have two orientations is still too limiting for someone described as you are...
It might be better to say that you are a sexual person.
And while I don't think anyone should put sex and romance entirely off the same spectrum....if an arrangement like what you've described is better for your health and personal outlook on the world...I say, as usual, anything is possible.
I suggest you live honestly with your partner(s) though, or the separation you've outlined could hurt the people you care for.
Live Well and Be Happy,
and Goddess Bless.
2007-05-28 21:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by earthcaress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No .. that's kind of split is unhealthy ... to see sex as separate from love.
If you are bisexual you can equally love and/or enjoy sex with either male or female. Or some bisexuals have a preference for one over the other but are "flexible" enough to enjoy/love either a male or female.
Bisexuality is a valid sexual orientation.
2007-05-28 21:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Bi male and I just use guys for sex! But then again I have a relationship with a female, even a fem guy wouldn't work for me because i prefer to be on bottom! So in order for me to get what I want out of sex this works best!
2007-05-28 23:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by Silent watcher of fools 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 01:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can have romantic love for either/both sexes regardless of your orientation. (Chivalric love? As in love from afar.) I'm NOT positive on this, but I think it is so.
But the sex(es) that make you "rise to the occasion" might be your "orientation".
2007-05-28 21:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the compartmentalizing is the weird part.
You should just look for both in one partner, they do exist.
You're talking about bisexuality with polyamory basically, so it does exist, but you refer to looking for something in one that the other lacks, well I suggest instead of doing that, figure out all that you want in a perfect lover, and look for it.
2007-05-29 05:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by Luis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call that two sexual orientations. but I do know many bisexuals who are like that. most like both genders romanticly and sexually, but some have romantic relationships with one sex exclusivly
2007-05-28 21:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens all the time. Usually it involves someone who won't commit to a relationship and is happy being a swinger and seeks out another swinger.
2007-05-28 21:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by closetcoon_fan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-05-28 21:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by bammage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like youre just bi but what do i know?
2007-05-28 21:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋