If i told you i was a prep or an emo or a goth would you judge me on the spot!?

Question

i dont like labels but resently iv noticed every time i turn arond i always hear people say emo and point at me. So i was wondering if i did call myself emo what would you say. I mean i hear it behind my back but if i claim the name i am suddenly a posser. The same goes for any cheerleader if they say they are a prep people call them possers if they dont then people call them preps! so whats with the labels which is is posser emo prep jock are you going to judge me by my looks or persinality or by what i say because no matter what i do i cant win im eaither emo a posser or a cutter( which by the way i dont do!!!)

yes i know i have poor spelling but my grammer is great! it really is!! but ya i know sorry about that i hope you dont think of me as a complete idiot! and thats what i have spell check for lol

Answer 1

No, I wouldn't. Everyone is individual.

IMHO people who make on-the-spot character judgements based solely on apearance (or anything else really) are either (a) so small-minded as to assume that how they dress/act/etc is the only acceptable way, or (b) woefully short of imagination.

Answer 2

I'd say that you worry far too much about what other people say & think about you. Don't give others the power to control your thoughts & actions. Turn your back on these "label whores" & WALK AWAY. Learn to live life on your own terms, as you have earned that just by being born into this world! Social stigma will make you as stupid as the people you are talking about. In the end, all that matters is how you feel about what YOU see in the reflection that stares back at you! Labels will hold you back & lock you in, so try to avoid this type of "traditional thinking"!!!

Answer 3

Most people think clothes say alot about a person but me I would just as soon get to know you and guess what I am too old to know all the lingo about groups so I would smile at you or I would not bother you if you looked mad. I go more by the facial features of a person then their clothes

Answer 4

Now that you realize there is a spell checker, learn to use it.
posser = poser,
i = I
dont = don't
iv = i've
arond = around
persinality = personality
cant = can't
im = I'm
eaither = either.
I've no idea what a prep or a cutter is, a goth is someone who looks like Morticia Adams, an emo (I think) is someone who has a silly fringe who keeps flicking it off his face.
If you don't want to be thought of as these things, don't dress like you do, be normal.

Answer 5

A bit... rock types inc emos or goths tedn to be part of community cultures , look out for each other and not be bitchy or nasty or like fighting. And not heavey drinkers.

Cheerleaders depends... if the fame goign to their head and think they can be bitchy. But others stay nice

Answer 6

as soon as you assume a label then people will identify you with the common characteristics of that label. so yes, in a sense you will be judged. but people are always making judgments regardless, so just be happy with yourself, its the surest way to not care what people think.

Answer 7

most people call me the goth b**** because i hardly talk and when people talk to me i give them a small answer but actually i'm just shy and i hate judging people because i get it all of the time, so i would not judge you

Answer 8

No i don't judge people by there looks, personality or what you say because i am a nice person. that's sad how they call you emo and point at you aswell behind your back.
Just ignore them.

Answer 9

Sure if you told me, I 'd feel sorry for you for having to tell, if you said nothing I'd then assume (judge) that you were an individual.

Answer 10

I wouldn't judge you if you either of those things. :) I really hate that. I really hate lables I hope ppl don't think im really stuck up when im actually just shy!