i dont know when i'm having an orgasim or if i even had one and i had sex like 13 times. i just let him enjoy hisself as i cant orgasm.
2007-05-28 16:32:48 · 14 answers · asked by olaveen 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You Got To Learn Your Own Body First and stop letting your boyfriend just enjoy his self or it will be like that forever, have your boyfriend pleasure you sometimes, let him know what you like and don't like and once you teach him what turns you on, you both can enjoy sex together.
Definition of a Female Orgasm:
Orgasm is the peak of sexual arousal when all the muscles that were tightened during sexual arousal relax, causing a very pleasurable feeling that may involve the whole body. During orgasm, many women's heart rates skyrocket, their breathing quickens, and their blood pressure rates increase. Muscles throughout their bodies spasm, especially those in the vagina, uterus, anus, and pelvic floor.
During orgasm, chemicals called endorphins are released into the bloodstream. They cause pleasant sensations to ripple through the body, and they also make many women feel happy, giddy, flushed, warm, or sleepy.
2007-05-28 16:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by ♒Aqua_Lady♒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His hormones are doing this and they are stronger than reason or request. There is nothing you can do to dial down his libido. The best you can do is tell him no and hope he doesn't find someone with his libido. Here is the problem. His libido seems so strong that having sex may be the only way he can keep his lust in check. It's a life long battle for some men and as a 45 year old, most men would rather not have a sex drive because of this... especially since women have little empathy for what we go through. If it does not damage your relationship to have more sex, then you are only saying no for the sake of saying no. Your relationship will not be closer if you have less sex. That is false logic. Doing things that make you close make you close. Not having sex will only make it so you are not having sex. Here is something you ought to know. Men CAN"T build emotional connections without sex. For a short time they can sort of live with the promise of sex... but once you are sexually active, the connection comes from sex alone. The chemical Oxytocin is ONLY produced during sex in men. This is the chemical responsible for creating emotional connections in the brain. Without it, no connection is made... and current connections fade. So, you are actually lessening your connection when you don't have sex. The more sex you have the more he is connected. So, say you don't want sex because you have had enough and you don't care if he needs more... but don't lie and say it's for your relationship. It's for your preference only.
2016-05-20 03:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know if you have had an orgasm or not. You will feel a full body rush and be really relaxed. It takes a lot of work to get an orgasm, well for females that is. You have to feel comfortable with your partner. He should hit your g-spot to give you more pleasure. Or he should rub your clitoris to make you orgasm. There are also different positions you can try. Dont think too much about coming, it will happen. Check out the link for techniques.
2007-05-28 16:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by chicgeek143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I cant talk for other women but I know I been havin sex since a young age and until last year, I got my first orgasm. Its just the best feeling. You cant think straight and your body gets weak and a way to tell that you didnt get one is if your b/f is at his climax and hes done and you feel like "what was that?", you didnt have one but if you feel like "OMG, that felt great!", then you had one....lol
2007-05-28 16:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by Rock-Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of women take a while before they orgasm some women only have a few i there life the trick is finding the positionand the right person to giveit to you!
2007-05-28 16:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by alishatravis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You WILL KNOW when u 've had an orgasm. so if your not sure..then u haven't had one.
As for him pleasuring himself..he needs to pleasure u first for at least 20 minutes.....women take longer than men to get excited.
Tell him to pleasure you or no sex!
Otherwise he's just selfish.
2007-05-28 16:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by daisy_ysiad2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh...you would know if you have had an orgasm. Many females don't have orgasms very easily. Check out
http://myvag.net/orgasm/desc/
it might help. Good Luck
2007-05-28 16:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by alybr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure, then you haven't. If you had, you'd know! You have to learn how. Explore your own body. You can't expect your boyfriend to give you an orgasm, if you don't know how to do it yourself.
2007-05-28 16:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would know if you had one. You sound like you are pretty young. I didn't have one til after my first child. The older and more confident you get with your body and partner the easier (natural) it will be.
2007-05-28 16:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by beth l 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
L.O.L....>>> r u serious???
how old are you?
when the time is right you will know.... until then you need to stop or slow down because you might not know if you are burning or not....do u think u would be able to feel that???
2007-05-28 16:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋