Do you believe men should punish their wives for having 'false awakenings' from dreams when told to get up?

Question

For example, let's say her husband wakes his wife up and tells her she needs to feed the kids breakfast, but she is still groggy and falls back to sleep, but in her mind she is dreaming that she is getting up and fixing her kids breakfast and doing all that he told her to do. Therefore in her mind she thinks she is obeying her husband and being up and awake, but in reality she is still dreaming in bed. Well, a lot of times, men will come in the bedroom again and see their wife is still asleep and get upset. Some men would give them a scolding, others a spanking, lecture, etc. I however, believe that in this case she shouldn't be in trouble because she really thought she was doing those things and leeway should be given. What do you all think?

Answer 1

yer a silly silly man, now get out of bed and make me breakfast!!!

Answer 2

Not no but HELL NO! Women are NOT subserviant to men and in many cases superior to men. When was the last time you saw a guy push a melon sized object through HIS genetalia!? I can't even fathom the thought that there is some ignorant PUKE who believes he has the right to punish the person who is supposed to be his best friend ,lover and confidant. The man is not the head of the household anymore. This is not 1949!

Answer 3

I personally don't understand why any woman would want to be with a man who looks at them like a child who needs to be told what to do and be punished when something is done wrong. No, women aren't perfect and we make mistakes. But so too do men. Why aren't men held to the same standards as women? If men make mistakes, their wives should be able to punish them.

Answer 4

Well, you drove the woman to exhaustion, making pillows and cutting up your food and feeding you, maintaining the house and the kids single handedly, working and handing you her paycheck. You've physically, emotionally, and financially abused her unto total depression, which makes you want to sleep.

So, get up, make the kids breakfast, and leave the poor woman Alone!!!!

Answer 5

my man makes me breakfest i wake him up and tell him what to do. dont you realize men cannot do anything without a woman. men need to be protected. you cannot do anything without me. men feel they are incontrol but they have no control. you should feed your wife because she is a stronger person than you. men cannot do these things or take care of themselves unless told. You think women should be told what to do. but in reality men need to be told what to do. men ruled the world until now, and look where its gotten us. women need to being to take their rightful place in the world. its slowing happening but it will happen. Im teaching my daughters now.

Answer 6

If the man is already up, why can't he feed the children!!!! responsibilities should be shared 50/50 in a relationship!

Answer 7

why cant he get up and make breakfast. I don't think that wives should be spanked unless it is shared erotic pleasure.

Answer 8

Sandy, your pretexts get more and more ludicrously far-fetched. You want to spank a girl for the fun of it, fine, go ahead - but spare us all this rigmarole.

Answer 9

Proverbs 31:15...She rises while it is yet night and provides food for her household and portions for her maidens.

According to this scripture a woman should be up and cooking way before anyone else in the house. She should be up long before her husband ever awakes...(unless they both have jobs and differing work schedules). If she is a homemaker, he should never have to wake her. He should wake to the smell of breakfast cooking.

Answer 10

Hey, her heart was in the right place. Give her a break. Or make the damn breakfast himself.

Answer 11

My husband is intelligent enough to make his own breakfast. It's not rocket science, after all...