i was raped when i was 2
but now im 15 and im ready to do it with my bf.
we have been going out since 3rd grade and i really want to give something as special as my virginity to him. but i dont even know if i have that to give.
but since i was so young and it was unwilling am i even considered a virgin?
i know physically im not but in reality there there would be no difference in the way it feels.
i havent told my bf about it so i dont even think he would be able to tell
2007-05-28 15:28:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
If you are taken against your will, then you are still a virgin.
2007-05-28 15:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You were raped when you were TWO? I guess anything is possible. Under the circumstances I'd be willing to say that you could consider yourself still a bona fide virgin, and no need to ever tell your bf about that. Just put it out of your mind and pretend it never happened. Forget about it. Cast it out of your mind like an evil spirit. Set yourself free.
Btw, at 15, are you SURE you are ready to do it with your bf? That is still pretty young. Would not hurt you to wait awhile, dear. Don't need to rush into anything.
2007-05-28 22:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by harridan5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say because virgin can mean 2 things for a female: A broken hymen or being untouched. You can lose your virginity to a female - it is not something only a male can take! A hymen can strengthen after years without penetration. That's a medical fact. Still, I think you should wait another year before trying intercourse and make sure to use CONDOMS, and tell your boyfriend to be VERY careful.
2007-05-28 22:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are still considered a virgin, but I don't think that you really should have sex at 15. If you are ready for sex you have to be ready to face the consequences of your actions. If you did get pregnant do you think that you could really care for a baby? I would just be really sure that is what you do before you do it. You can't take it back and it is not something to take lightly. Take care of yourself.
2007-06-01 20:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hymen (or "cherry" if you prefer) *does* grow back. If you don't believe me, ask a doctor. And 15 is, definitely, wayyyyyyy too young to have sex. Sex is supposed to be something meaningful, something to share with someone that you are going to spend the rest of your life with, have children with, share your soul with. At 15, it may *seem* like those are your intentions, but youre really honestly too young. Take it from an old fogey like me...it is the one special thing that you have to give to your soulmate and you haven NOT found him yet...please trust me on this (though I know you wont). You've still got so much to learn and discover of life yet...if you do wait, you will never ever regret it. Forget that part of your life...the person who violated you was mentally sick. Yes, dear...you are definitely still a virgin...but you really need to take having it seriously and be as completely responsible with it as you possible can because you can only give it once (unless you plan on only giving it up once and then waiting years for it to grow back...if it will from an older age). Please look up hymen under google or ask a doctor. Then reconsider tossing it away at such a young age?
2007-05-28 22:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes you are still a virgin... at least i would think so. and girl... you are way toooooo young to being having sex in the first place. 15... damn! all i gotta say is... if you do it... please start some kind of birth control by going to planned parenthood in your area... or use protection. i just don't agree with you having sex at such a young age. but it's your decision.
2007-05-28 22:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by lamppost05 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have not been enjoyed sex life, maybe you are still a virgin in thoughts.
jtm
2007-05-28 22:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are still a virgin and i think you are to young to have sex.If you do decide to have sex use protection.No matter what he say tell him no glove no love and thats it.
2007-05-28 22:34:28 · answer #8 · answered by dead 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are still a virgin but you should wait on giving up your virginity...SMILE
2007-05-28 22:38:34 · answer #9 · answered by Ablebaby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are a virgin. Save yourself for your HUSBAND!!!
2007-06-01 15:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by "Chreece" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋