Will things ever turn out for the better?

Question

I feel sad when I look at what has happened to my ex-husband, daughter and myself.

My ex-husband is not doing well at his job. He lived in another state and moved due to job reasons. He left our daughter in his mother's care.

My daughter is not doing well in school and is lonely at times.

I feel lost in life and am not able to settle down at a permanent job. I live in another state.

I don't know how things will ever get resolved and become okay.

My ex-husband has been given 30 to 60 days to improve his job performance or he will be out of a job.

I have repeatedly asked him to send my daughter to me. He says no and has sole physical and legal custody.

I don't see any hope in the situation.

Answer 1

dont be silly, i bet your working yourself up in a sweat because your thinking about too many problems at once.

Choose which issue to deal with first, dats your first step. ok, so your daughters not doing well at school and is lonely...But if your ex husband loses his job, then it makes life even harder for her.

You need to first focus on your ex husband soughting himself out, 60 days is a long time. he can do it.

Even if you HATE him, you need to motivate him to improve, remember your doing it for your daughter not for him.

You need to be writing down in detail all events from now, incase you have to bring him to court, (if thats possible).

If things go well and he keeps his job, next step is soughting out your daughters problems at school. nag your ex husband to play more of a part in her life. Be dominant, and once again write down in a diary all the events that happen, because they might benefit you in future if taking him to court.

You unfortunately will have to come last in the equation. Be a strong woman, i can tell you already are, so just step it up a little.

Once you know your daughters content or reasonably happy, you got to start moving on with your own life. Always be there for her whenever you can, But remember you deserve to enjoy life like everyone else.

You need to do each thing one step at a time. You know deep down you can handle this, think about the final outcome, if all goes to plan.

You will have a new secure job, a new man in your life in know time. Dont give up. your situation is not as complicated as the "demons" in your head are making it seem.

Good luck sweetheart and stay strong!! =)

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Is there anyway you could move closer,being a mom you can see your concerns for your daughter,and since you dont have custody there is not much you can do, unless you move to their state..i know that may be hard to do,but being at a long range of distance, .....make sure you keep in touch with your daughter