she really likes my personality.and i like hers too. she is too me the right woman for me and i am the right man for her but she is too scared of letting feelings flow b/c she is scared that our feelings are true .. she deserves to b happy and she is afraid of being happy .. b.c she has never had a man like me before ...like a romantic ,kind, gentle, very unselfish, want to pamper my woman type
2007-05-28 14:11:22 · 12 answers · asked by country4skot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im not puffed up.. i might have used the wrong kind of words.. but im not puffed up on myself..im far from that ...
2007-05-28 14:22:46 · update #1
we talk sooo good on the phone and i told her that im not perfect.. i do have flaws and she told me that she has flaws.she calls me at least 5 x a day. she sees that she wants to b with me.
2007-05-28 14:27:32 · update #2
just be patient and continue to show your love for her, eventually she'll realize she has no reason to be scared.
2007-05-28 14:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by kerstin g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does not scare me but i understand why it scares some people because people don't want to be happy and then something goes wrong then they lose all their happiness they feel it was never worth it in the first place cause normally when your happy you fall at some point and end up the opposite of a happy person...
2016-05-20 02:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls are this way from previous guys but you just have to be there for her anyway and keep on reminding her that you aren't the other men she has been with you are you and that alone deserves a chance also just show her over time you are a patient man and are willing to take her and show her a whole nother level of love and happiness she just has to try to love it and be happy to want ot for herself!!!! ultimately you have to just be there for her and understand why because she needs more proof and tI'me to really see what you are like not what you say you are like because I'm sure all the others said great things too!! so give her time and for now the best thing for her is you to be her friend and see where it goes! if you two are really meant for one another like you say then im sure she will come around!! good luck!
2007-05-28 14:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsmiles69@jennieask-me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might be scaring her
she may feel like this is an act and thinks you r going to change into the real u after she lets her feelings show
or not to be mean, she might be to nice to tell u she really doesn't like u
or you maybe smothering her try not calling her for a couple of days (it will be hard but try) Let her feel as lonely as you do If you have to call her there might be trouble in Paradise
good luck and if any of this is true theres a nice girl out there some where for u
2007-05-28 14:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by G O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really know such thing as scared of happiness. Maybe she is influenced by someone that she doesn't want to be with you. Or maybe she thinks she doesn't deserve to have you or she realizes she wants a more adventurous guy or just plain out is not interested.
2007-05-28 14:16:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she tell you she was to scared are did you come up with it? Could it be that she is not as interested in you as you are in yourself. You seem some what puffed up. and most Ladies don't like that. Sorry to be the one to tell you. She may just don't want to hurt your feelings.
2007-05-28 14:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by MS Williams 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is scared of happiness, I think she is scared of getting hurt. Ever hear it's too good to be true? If this is the woman for you, take your time and continue to be the gentleman you are. Don't give up.
2007-05-28 14:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK , while don't you express that to her instead? If you know so much about her you would get the real answer from her and not a bunch of different answers from strangers .
2007-05-28 14:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got one, too. bad previous marriage, childhood issues, family alchohol issues, abuse, bah, blah, blah.people like this need time to believe that things really CAN be good. keep doing what you're doing, and in time she will believe. this doesn't mean that you can eventually stop this stuff altogether. but keep telling her she deserves to be happy, and that you love her, everyday. you BOTH deserve to be happy.
2007-05-28 14:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldn't come on so strong. You might be all those things, but I feel uncomfortable just reading it.
2007-05-28 14:14:09 · answer #10 · answered by lei 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋