how can i tell my bf that I'm pregnant....?.....without it being his baby?
2007-05-28 14:01:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Really, you just have to come out and say it. There is really no good way. And the longer you wait the harder it will be.
2007-05-28 14:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by ChrissyBar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you absolutely positive that it is not your boyfriend's baby? Either way it is better for you to tell him now than to wait until you are showing and for him to figure it out on his own. Some guys will hang around and look after a child that is not theirs, others won't. If you are sure that it is not his the real father has a right to know also. Just look after yourself and the growing baby at the moment. Tell your boyfriend that you think/are pregnant and that it might be his, also explain what happened. If it was a one-night stand tell him, if you like this other guy better tell him, he needs to know all info before he makes a decision that could affect the rest of his life.
I was raped 4 years ago and got pregnant from it and my boyfriend had to deal with the fact that I had been raped and that I was pregnant, he was fine with it eventually, but I ended up miscarrying which worked out best for the situation. We got married in June last year and are now expecting our first child. I know that it is a different circumstance to that which you are in, but I thought that it might help you.
The main point is that he deserves to know.
2007-05-28 21:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by Rhubarb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to tell him. I know two girls who were pregnant when they started going out with a guy and the guy stayed. Just be honest.
2007-05-28 21:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by mummabellybump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any decency left in your soul, you will tell him you are sorry you wasted his time, and let him find someone with some sense! For your unborn child's sake; use the 9 months to get your life together! Good luck!
2007-05-28 21:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by Christine O 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the guy. Some guys will not want to stay with you if the baby is not his. You're just gonna have to be real with him.
2007-05-28 21:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by bride2be 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you pregnant before you met him, or did you cheat on him? Either way, it will be a bumpy road ahead for you, but certainly a better one if you didn't cheat on him.
2007-05-28 21:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by clarity 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he is not your boyfriend if your pregnant to an other man he is just the man you are making an idiot of.tell him the truth and leave him alone to get a decent girlfriend and some one that respects him
2007-05-28 21:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by helly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
buck up and tell the truth, if you lie than your child will live a lie for the rest of his/her life. Thats not right. Just tell him.
2007-05-28 21:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by morrismom0204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hah... hmm... well first deal with the whole you cheating aspect. then deal with the pregnancy issue. who knows if he'll even still be with you after you tell him. i'd break the news that you cheated on him first... then let him know that you expect him to care for someone else's child.
2007-05-28 21:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by mums_the_word 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u are very afraid, break up with him, and dont tell him u r pregnant
2007-05-28 22:08:12 · answer #10 · answered by samy t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋