Hi, this coninues from my last question, and here is the twist.
As i made clear before, my girlfriends' friend, uses her, to...
get fake reassurance that her man isnt cheating...
To emulate the clothes she wears...
And in return.. she gives absolutely nothing back to the friendship. She actually can not start a conversation about anything, except her boyfriend.
Anyway the twist is this. Just recently she has made a new friend, and has pretty much pushed my girl to the side. After using her for 8 years, and copying everything about her, even personality traits. She has left her to the curb.
Basically my girl wanted to get rid of her as a friend anyway, because she was sucking her dry. But she is basically in shock that the friend actually dump her instead.
And so am i, but i wanted to ask, Do you think revenge in this situation would be wrong, concidering my girl, is aquaintances with the "new" friend, my girl wants to tell her everything about what to watch out for.
2007-05-28 13:29:06 · 4 answers · asked by Dan E 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i don't think her warning the new friend would be revenge,your girlfriend sounds sweet to nice to kick her using friend to the curb first.this may cause problems i think she should just leave it alone and be happy she is using someone else the new friend may get sick of her fast and she'll be looking for your girlfriend agein.tell your girlfriend leave it as it is and make sure when she comes back stay distent so she dosen't get pulled back in to being used.use this as a learning expirence when she meets others like her stay distant not mean just distant
2007-05-28 13:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
With friends like that who needs enemies?
Seriously, tell your girlfriend to just let the other girl go. If she feels the need to warn the new friend about her, realize that her ex-friend sounds like the kind of person who'd say its all sour grapes on her part, and that your girlfriend is just being petty. If she's like that with her new friend, the new friend will find out in time.
Walk away and realize she's had a lucky escape form that user.
2007-05-28 13:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
I agree with the next person that answers this question.
2007-05-28 13:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont dwell on someone you ovbiously you didnt like. be glad shes gone and celebrate, not hate
2007-05-28 13:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by willie06304 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋