When someone won't discuss it with me, I get angry I need it to be resolved.
What would you do?
2007-05-28 13:11:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I just leave it until they come back crying for me.
2007-05-28 13:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by DARIA. - JOINED MAY 2006 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would calmly, rationally, try to understand why that person may not want to discuss it with me. Am I overly agressive, am I too stubborn in my position, are they particularly touchy about the situation? Then, after a little while away from that person, I'd approach them, and not ask them about the issue at hand, but change it to what we can do to have more open dialogue.
If after that, the other person still wouldn't communicate with me, I would calmly, cooly and completely LOOSE MY COOL, start screaming, throwing things around the room and use threatening language and motions to let them know they should not continue to screw with my HEAD!!!!!! LOL!
Peace (count to 10, 1.2.3.4....)
2007-05-28 21:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by zingis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is one of the most frustrating parts of relationships. Sometimes I would literally want to tear my hair out!
It's hard to get through to people who refuse to communicate. Every person I've been with that has had this affliction, I've always ended the relationship.
It's hard to be in a relationship all by yourself!
2007-05-28 20:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by Firespider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband is that way with me all the time! I finially figured out if I cool down and let him cool down, just drop it for the time being. Then once everything is cool we can sit down and talk about it!
2007-05-28 20:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I change the subject and take our minds off it then like 10min later im like "What did you mean?"
2007-05-28 20:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by Hi there. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋