I met this girl when we lived in a boarding school in Louisiana, she was from Dallas and I was from Houston. Once we were both back at home we started talking again and she would come down to visit me in Houston. She became friends with my friends and I thought it was cool. She one day told me that she was planning on moving to Houston because she was sick of Dallas. She moved and I kind of got the feeling that she liked my boyfriend. I eventually found out that she did and stopped being her friend. Me and my boyfriend broke up and now me and her are friends again because I was over it. She is really weird and will almost hit on me at times, she then plays it off like she is joking. My other friends tell me she is a psycho and compare it to the movie Single White Female. I am very confused and its not as if I can just stop talking to her altogether because she will show up at my house. I have no idea what to do and honestly I am kind of scared of her....
2007-05-28 10:30:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like a situation I had with one of my old friends.
If you really want to get rid of her, you need to be honest with her. You need to sit her down sometime and tell her what you're truly thinking and ask her to back off for a while because you need your space. I know it takes a lot of courage, but it will alleviate a lot of problems later on.
Don't be intimidated by her at any means, she probably plays the controlling one simply because it's her only way to keep people in her life.
Good luck!
2007-05-28 10:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by Questionable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reasons I would not be friends with someone: If the person is a habitual liar If the person is an active member of the KKK If the person is a destructive member of society who is only out for themselves and doesn't care who they harm If the person is a child or animal molester, abuser or killer. I have standards and anyone who wants to be my friend has to also have standards. There are certain conditions that apply to friendship and just because everyone's are different doesn't mean they cannot be a good friend. I have got friends from all over the country and they all meet my criteria of being a "friend".
2016-05-20 00:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a friend like this...you should talk to her about how you feel (without directly calling her a psycho) and if you are STILL really scared of her, distance yourself from her...ask her to not show up at your house uninvited, and dont hang out with her as much...focus on your other friends..
2007-05-28 10:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try distancing yourself from here and telling her that you do not feel comfortable around her anymore and that you would like to stop hanging out. Be honest with her and if she gets all psycho then call the cops and get a restraining order.
2007-05-28 10:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by superthunda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hie Kasethy. Well to me it is better for you to stop being her friends and just try to ignore her and try to still remain with her friends. Because when you still talk to her she feel more happy so the best way is ignore her and be yourself. About your boyfriend I guess she must not do that mean thing of breaking up you with your boyfriend instead she must find some one else and your boyfriend should be loyalty to you instead going and falling in love with her after you had explain too. Try this and hope it might help you...................
ALL THE BEST...................
2007-05-28 10:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she shows up, tell her you have other plans and cannot see her. She has no right to expect you to drop everything if she just shows up. Do that everytime she comes over. Tell her not to come over unless she's invited. You don't need to act nice at all if you want to get rid of her.
2007-05-28 10:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely start putting more space between you. When she shows up at your house, be too busy to talk. Do whatever you have to do before this gets out of hand. GL.
2007-05-28 10:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by Katyana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have any contact with her at all.
She is wacked . She will only be trouble for you.
Don't answer the door or phone knowing it is her.
Tell her out right how you feel ..
2007-05-28 10:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Don't be scared to find out the truth
2007-05-28 10:35:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her straight up about what you percieve as flirting!
If it makes you uncomfortable tell her, suggest that she stop doing that, unless you actually want her too.
2007-05-28 10:37:43 · answer #10 · answered by workingbravo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋