why should i look perfect when he is over weight, who agrees that he should worry more about what he looks like, instead of worrying how big my breasts are?
2007-05-28 10:25:05 · 38 answers · asked by Lisa T 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell him to get lost, even if he was thin and looked like brad pitt and wanted you to have a boob job and you did not then shouldn't.
Its your body your life not his.
2007-05-28 11:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"The first response is usually the correct one." --Eddie Murphy, Coming To America
What I'm trying to say is, the response you just gave says everything about how you feel about this issue. You don't believe it's his choice. You know your brain is not in your boobs. You're aware that your husband is thinking with his brain in some other part of his body at the moment.
He is aware that he should worry more about what he looks like? He should also be aware that if he continues to make you feel uncomfortable, consequences may ensue--like you leaving him. He will be a very sad person if that happens, and I doubt he wants that. Sit him down with no distractions and tell him what you feel and why. If he loves you from the bottom of his heart, he will stop with the comments. If he doesn't--the results are up to you, my dear.
2007-05-28 10:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jonnae L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what an a-hole. No, better yet, HE IS THE BOOB. What an idiot to tell you that you need improvement when his sloppy butt is chub city. Take the money for the boob job, and enroll him in the gym instead. Tell him when he gets buff, you will be glad to have to boob job. There is no reason to go through the pain alone. Let him feel what it is like first. Bet you don't get the boobs!
You should be happy, and so should he, with what you were blessed with anyway.
2007-05-28 10:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be looking at the person you are with to be honest. It's soul destroying to be with a guy who wants to change you, even if in his head he thinks he is doing you a favour. (Some dress their bastard behaviour up that way) If you want a boob job fine, but if your happy with your boobs tell him to jog on. If I was you, I'd get the boob job, a tan and look the best I ever had then promptly dump him! That would teach him a great lesson.
Good luck hun x
2007-05-28 11:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to have a unnecessary surgery? Go figure. Tell when he loses the weight that you will reward him with a boob job.
2007-05-28 10:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him lose the weight or as painful as that is to say no new boob. you are right you should not have to go through all that if he is just be a slob. Please email me the before and after pictures thank you. and if he give you a lot of grief about getting in shape cut him off no sex either. but if you really wanted to be mean about it you can get the new boobs and tell him he can't touch them until he he drops the weight that you want. and were low cut shirts that will get his attention and he will kill himself to try to please you....
2007-05-28 10:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he's worried that his are getting bigger than yours?
Seriously, take no notice. I'm sure you'd like him to have a body like Jean Claude Van Damme too, but you love him for being him, so he should return the compliment! Tell him to dream on
2007-05-28 10:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by Dogsbody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourself girl! What about all the problems with super bugs in hospitals at present and all for cosmetic surgery. Its bad enough when you have to stay in hospital for a medical reason. Steer clear - all manner of things could go wrong.
2007-05-28 11:13:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife has just had the operation about 6 wks ago,with no pressure from me to have them done.She wanted them done for herself and her own reasons.
So if your husband isnt happy the way you are,its his problem.
What if you did have them done and felt more confident in your self.Then you would have plenty of admirers and would your husband be pleased then.Also you could with your new confidience find a man who would love you for you and not your chest size.
2007-05-28 10:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by iwillifuwill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really weird, I agree with you, he should be worried about his weight. I get the feeling that maybe he is trying to push you away from him or something.
2007-05-28 10:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋