i really want to have sex, but i'm worried that it will hurt a lot/ and i'll get pregnant or something even though my boyfriend will wear a condom. help me please! what should i do?
2007-05-28 10:19:53 · 11 answers · asked by smileycheerpuppet 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
being worried is not a good state to enter into sex with. Worry is an emotion that is telling you that you are not ready or this insn't the right time, person, etc. To have sex you have to be really into it - it is not a cerebral thing - it is a body thing. Do you have to think about sneezing? Well think about sex that way. When you are ready in the moment, you will know it. You will feel like you need it, want it, etc. Your body will tell you you want it - you will not have to think about it.
2007-05-28 10:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two children and have never had un-protected sex. Use a sponge as well as him using a condom. In this society you would be lucky to only get pregnant. Painful, my first time was very painful and I had an amazing partner. How old are you. I can tell you that waiting until you are truly in love and responsible enough to go to a professional at school or a doctors office are easy steps if you are truly ready for this big step.
2007-05-28 10:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt the first time you have sex. After a while you will love it. If he wears a condom you shouldn't get pregnant, but there is still a possiblity. Condoms are only 85% effective.
2007-05-28 10:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by jabsgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd like to know more info about you... like how old you are. any time you have sex there is a chance of getting pregnant no matter what kind or how much protection you use. i think people who are ready for the responsibilities of parenthood are the only ones who should be having sex. you might be able to handle being a Mom but i doubt your boyfriend is ready to be a Dad. Always consider the possibility. Plus you want to have sex with someone very special in your life and if your young this is probably not the guy your going to end up with... i'd wait until its much more serious or you guys are talking marriage.
2007-05-28 10:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sleepyguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 1st time does normally hurt but that's because we don't relax coz we're scared, if your really worried your not ready to do such things yet, you will know when the time is right it won't be planned and you'll just go with the flo, as for condoms they are quite safe and i recommend that you use 1 it will not only stop you from getting pregnant it will stop any std's.
2007-05-28 10:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by alimarwil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will hurt , but u will love it believe me
u wont get pregnant if he's going to wear a condom
2007-05-28 10:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is very natural make sure it is good condom and use spermicide that will protect you the best for pregnancy but not std make sure their clean
2007-05-28 10:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as he uses a condom you're pretty safe, it doesn't hurt...if it does, and he's good enough, you'll forget about the pain anyway...
2007-05-28 10:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by ~*.:Kyla:.*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hink that if youre this worried about it you should wait i mean its not worth it if your not sure.....my advise is to just be careful and safe
2007-05-28 10:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you are really ready or even until you are married.
2007-05-28 10:25:40 · answer #10 · answered by Ally J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋