He takes medicine for high blood pressure and diabetes.....do you think that he doesnt want to and is angry about it because he cant keep it up? Or do you think that he is getting his pleasure elsewhere? I have a problem with this because I have an ex husband who was not faithful and now when my husband and I don't....I worry...alot which makes me ask questions....what to do?
2007-05-28 07:47:23 · 16 answers · asked by suzette 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stress & worry will do that. Maybe he doesn't want to start something he can't finish. Offer to give him a massage after a nice dinner & a drink & take it from there. Good luck.
2007-05-28 07:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by andy in greece 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the sound of it you'd let yourself get way too dependent there. Obviously she's lost interest, come on, you know that, but you've been clinging and you need to spread your wings a bit. And if she's gone from having sex 4-6 times a week to nothing with you? Then she's probably found a substitute for you long ago which means you might be wise to get an STD check. Sounds a bit... almost bitter, but having been a student myself....
2016-03-13 00:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can't say for sure if he is getting it from someone else or not. But from what I've learned, when men can't get it up or keep it up...they feel like less of a man and it's very embrassing for them. Even if we say it's no big deal. How old is he, cause age may also be a factor. If he is trying to still have sex with you, more than likely it's just his limpness. It's probably very depressing when he tries and fails. Try one of those free trial of enzyte or any of those other pills for ED(erectile disfunction). Or go see a doctor.
2007-05-28 07:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mommy of 2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The poor guy has diabetes and high BP....those two conditions can cause the small viens to close up, that means less erections .......sorry to break the news but it sounds like whats happened, try to get some Viagra or put him on a low fat diet, drink more red wine and olive oil etc all the stuff that wont clog up his arteries, itll take time but the arteries can be cleared just by following the right diet....he most probably needs help with his circulatory system.
2007-05-28 07:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's getting any from another source. I would research his meds by writing them down, if they are hard to remember. If you do a Yahoo search on his specific meds, I'm sure you will find a site that lists the side affects that he is probably having about not keeping it up. As for the "not wanting to get it on", he is probably embarrassed about not performing like the man that he wants to be. A guy's self esteem can and almost always reflect what is going on in his bedroom, take it from me, I'm a guy!
2007-05-28 07:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by terryspencerwv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First Stay Calm.
If your husband does not control his diabetes well, it can cause nerve damage and impotence.
If he has high blood pressure, what is his cholesterol and triglycerides? If he is starting to have heart disease problems with plaque buildup that can also create problems with impotence.
Also some blood pressure meds can affect him as well.
He needs to talk to his doctor about this. And come up with a solutions, such as one of the drugs now out for ED.
2007-05-28 07:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe deep down he knows that he is having a problem keeping an erection,and to be embarrased by trying to have sex and it not working frustrates him. so he probally doesnt engage in sex more because of it. talk to him about how your feeling,and if he has concerns medically too ask your doctor if the medications he is on has sexual side affects. if that doesnt resolve the issue then maybe you need to discuss it a little further about how it makes you worry he is not intrested or possibly unfaithful. and keep in mind to be understanding if it is embarrasing for him the last thing he needs is to feel pressure to do it. lots of luck hun.
2007-05-28 07:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by soulm8s7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it's because he's having trouble - it's humiliating I'm sure.
Get some Viagra.
Get some Cialis.
Those blue "natural male enhancement" things with that guy Bob only work for about two weeks.
Go to an herbalist, and try something there.
Go down on him and get him excited. Or go down on each other - make it work.
2007-05-28 07:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-14 15:31:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Diabetes has been known to cause ED. If you do suspect him of cheeting, talk to him. Tell him you are afraid and don't understand. Any loving man would comfort you, but he may also be afraid himself and upset that he can't preform to please you. Be understanding and don't point a finger. It may not be his falt. Ask him if he feels he should see a doctor about this problem. Let him know that you are upset with his performance, just worried about what may be causing it.
2007-05-28 07:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋