2007-05-28 07:09:22 · 52 answers · asked by k4s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No you better wait what hapens to most people is the baby is to much for them so they give it up for adoption and that is not rite yo need to wait or better yet why dont you go ASK YOUR PARENTS AND SEE WHAT THEY SAY!!!!!!!! You need to be worring about your education and NOT having sex!!
2007-05-28 07:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by thomas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking for help in having the baby-that is- getting pregnant, taking care of the baby-that is- the one billion things that are involved in the complete care of a little human being or psychological advice because at age 14 it is possible that you are unsure if you should be entertaining these thoughts?
In any event, I have three children-9, 5, & 2- and have a pretty complete understanding of what it is that you are contemplating embarking upon and no matter what your answer to my question would be, I would like you to reconsider having a baby at this stage in your life. You have your entire life to live. Go and live some of it first. There will be plenty of time to raise and enjoy children. I love mine but am really glad I had them when I did. I wish you the best!!!
2007-05-28 07:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Fausto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you take care of it? Do you have a job? A career? Sometimes a job doesn't just take care of one human, let alone two...My husband I both have a career and two children with one on the way...we can't even afford this one coming and I do mean that...we have car payments, insurance, mortgage, daycare (which costs 800 a month right now with two kids...with three it will be 1200 a month), doctor's bills (because it will costs us about $5000 to 10,000 to have the baby.), up keep on cars, groceries, electricity, and that's not including gas and clothes...not to mention we are still paying off our student loans from college. This might not be your situation, but daycare is expensive, formula is 28 dollars a week sometime more in a week...this is stuff you will HAVE TO PAY FOR!!! Don't forget diapers and detergent so that you can wash their clothes and sheets every other day because baby's sheets and blankets need to be cleaned.
2007-05-28 07:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by Amy V 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think at 14 you could take care of a baby, first off your still in school, and you can't really work. So how do you plan on taking care of a baby. I was 17 when I had my son and that was hard enough, i couldn't imagine having a baby at 14.
2007-05-28 07:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lovemykids 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
So you're probably either in 8th grade or a Freshman in High School. You'll be missing out on a WHOLE lot of fun. When your friends are out having normal teenage fun, you'll be stuck at home playing "house" for the next 18 yrs. You should wait until you're old enough to take care of yourself independently...without your parents. Think of what you will not be able to provide your baby. Your baby deserves all that you can provide. If you can't even work, what will you be able to provide. Love? Yes I'm sure, but love is not enough. If you want something to love you, buy a puppy. A pet can give so much love back if you take care of it well.
2007-05-28 07:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by Bernadette H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At 14, you should be in the beginning stages of high school, going to dances, sleepovers, talking on the phone all night with friends. You can't do that with a baby crying in the background. Forget about the party your best friend is having. You can't go! You have to stay home with the baby! And what about buying new clothes and shoes and stuff like that? You can't go shopping and get your nails done! You will have to buy pampers and blankets and pacifiers and baby clothes. What about going away for two weeks after high school? You can't go! The baby will be 3 or 4 in pre-school and you will probably have to have a job to take care of it! What about going away to college? Do you get the point?
2007-05-28 07:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is just telling u to wait which is good advice but your going to do what u want anyways a good idea would be to buy that real alive baby doll and give it a try first before u jump into anything cause once u have a baby there is no turning back or turning it off the doll can be a trial if u can't afford the doll u can't afford a baby they are very expensive so buy the doll then see your thoughts about wanting a baby after and be sure u find the right man at your age your gonna find a lot of boys u don't need a boy u need a man good luck
2007-05-28 07:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by just bored 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can take care of a baby when you have a high school diploma... shoot further and get a college degree, make $40,000 a year on your own, own a house, and own (and can legally drive) a car.
You're 14... sex and babies should be the last thing on your mind. Getting pregnant now would either cause your parents to make youhave an abortion, give the baby up for adoption, or force them to raise another child (that they had nothing to do with making).
2007-05-28 07:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by ravens_angel78 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen *****. I'm only gonna say dis once, k. Ur so ******' young. Are u sure u want 2 have a lil' baby yet???? U don't knw what it feels like 2 take care of a baby. The guys are just tryin' 2 get in ur pants these days so don't go ******' around wit somebody, well some boy, yet and just think about dis **** seriously. I mean lots of bitches wanna get pregnant. I understand. I have friends like that who want 2 get pregnant and **** like that. I think u should talk 2 ur parents or somebody like that before u do **** u will regret. Talk 2 someone u feel comfortable wit. U don't wanna be waking up every ******' *** night caring for a baby when u need 2 take care of urself. Aight, that's all da **** I got 2 ******' say. Peace Out!!!!!
2007-05-28 12:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by Soulja Grl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would be really cruel and selfish of you to purposely bring a child into this world when you are but a child yourself still. Perhaps you could volunteer at a children's shelter in your area instead. There are many needy children who could benefit from a caring, energetic, enthusiastic teen who genuinely loves and cares about kids... I have 3 children and at 29 years old it is very challenging and the most tremendous responsibility you can ever imagine. I hope that you have an adult in your life that you can confide in. It is troubling to me, as the mother of 3 girls, that you have such a desire. Please wait until you are an adult, married, and can provide a proper home and are mature enough to parent children responsibly before you start having kids. It is impossible at age 14 to be able to do that.
2007-05-28 07:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by kyla m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your too young and don't realize how much you will regret it in the future. You have a whole life ahead of you and the right time to have a baby will come when you are much older and can afford it in every way! My stepdaughter got pregnant at 18 and is now struggling to make it. Living with us and working at Wendy's with a baby to take care of is not the life for you. You need to love yourself before you can share that kind of love with a baby.
2007-05-28 07:20:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋