im worried please, i asked my mother but she didnt care at all please can i be pregnant?

Question

last month my bf and i were fooling around about the 14th we didnt have sex at all im a virgin and he is too, we were both dressed up im pretty sure that nothing went inside of me because we were so careful he use deisnfectant before he touched me, and we make sure that he never toushed himself before he touches me .. i expected my period to the 21 but it didnt come until the 26 it was pretty normal i think that it was me being stresed out that delayed my period. aroud the time of ovulation ths month i got some brown discharge but i didnt get worried until now that my period hasnt come now im going to the bathroom every 30 min but i think that its because im so stressed my breasts have been sore for the last two days but usually i expected them to be like tht 2 or 3 days before my period, today they dont feel sore at all, please help me i also took a pregnancy test before my period last month and it came out negative and the next day my period arrived

Answer 1

Greetings :) Let's go over the facts first; in order for a baby to be conceived, sperm much reach the egg during ovulation, and in order for that to be possible, the penis must be in or at the very least, near the opening of the vagina so the sperm can find their way to the egg. If what you said is true and you were fully clothed, there is absolutely no way you are pregnant.

That being said, the most important thing for you to do right now is to be properly educated on human biology. Please talk with your mother about your desire to learn how the human body works; especially the female body. Should your mother not be available, I suggest contacting Planned Parenthood foran educational course. The internet is also a great source to use.
Below is a website for you to look at that specifically answers your question to whether a person can get pregnant with their clothes on.
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Can_you_get_pregnant_with_your_clothes_on

Answer 2

Ok, just take a deep breath and reread what you wrote. There is no way that you're pregnant. You didn't have sex, you were clothed, he doesn't touch himself before touching you, you used disinfectant (that wouldn't kill sperm in the first place, but ok...).

I would say the symptoms you're experiencing are all stress related mixed with a tad bit of paranoia. I had the same thing happen after the first time that me and my boyfriend fooled around. I was so paranoid that my period was almost a week late! Today, 9 months after that little incident, I'm not pregnant and we're still together. Don't worry yourself too much.

The frequent urinating is also stress related. I have the same thing right now because I'm stressed out over school, work, and car payments!

Answer 3

Wow, you sure did get a lot of sarcastic answers! First of all, it IS possible to get pregnant without having sex, BUT the possibility of that is EXTREMELY small- there would have to be a way for the semen to get inside of you, i.e. you or him having some on his fingers and then putting them inside of you, or if he ejaculated onto your pubic area and some got pushed inside. But even if that did happen, it would have to be at exactly the right time of month, and he would have to have some pretty tough "swimmers" to accomplish that. From what you wrote, it sounds like you were both fully clothed, AND he washed his hands before they came near you- SO, you are NOT pregnant!

Now, about the late pd- that can be completely normal occasionally. If you are constantly late, you might have a longer menstrual cycle than you originally thought (mine is 32 days long- it didn't used to be, and it took me a LONG time to figure out that I was always the same number of days late every month). Your gynecologist can prescribe birth control to help you regulate if it is bothersome. Also, sometimes women can completely skip a period (that has happened to me once). This can be due to just about anything- a change in diet, a change in exercise, unusual levels of stress, depression, anorexia/bulemia, the list goes on and on.

If it will make you feel better to take a pg test, then do it- but you'll be wasting your money! Hope that answers your questions!!

Answer 4

First of all, how old are you? And if you asked your mom and she didn't care you need to go live with someone else, a relative that actually cares about you.Next...your young. I've skipped periods and I was a virgin, and never thought anything about it. Don't worry and stop stressing. Your not pregnant, but you might want to slow down and stophaving sexual contact with your boyfriend unless if you want to have a baby, because believe it or not one night you will be messing around and you both will get to the point the line disappears and before you know it your having sex.

Answer 5

I think you're probably NOT pregnant but really stressing yourself out. Plus hormones throughout a womans cycle can cause breast tenderness and soreness. I get that during ovulation and also right before my period.

You will have discharge around ovulation, too. Some women even spot occassionally.

You and your boyfriend need to abstain totally from now on. Not only is "playing around" libel to lead you into real sex, but you will be constantly worried about getting pregnant.

Please do NOT go to Planned Parenthood for birth control pills. Pills don't always work. Abstinence is 100% effective.

Answer 6

Don't worry yourself, hon. You can't be pregnant as there was no sex. Full stop. BUT...sore/bloated breasts, and a slightly darker discharge are both signs that you are about to come on your period.

The more you worry, the less likely you will be to come on your period. You can actually delay it yourself by getting sterssed out.
The only way for you fall pregnant is by sex, or by having your boyfriends' penis come into some form of contact with your vaginal area, as sperm can still enter the vagina even if he doesn't penetrate you.

There's no need for you to worry this time, but PLEASE, if you're thinking of having full sex with your boyfriend, make sure he wears a condom. No condom, no sex! Good luck. xx

Answer 7

For what u said you are not pregnant its just the stress, relax. If u want to do a pregnancy test just to be 100% secure.

Really once i delayed 5 days its just that sometime the body needs more time to have your period.

Trust me I know what i feels that anxiety, but try to relax, don't think about it and don't go check every 30min.

Answer 8

you did not have sex, what are you talking about, disinfectant , you really need to have a talk with a trusted adult, if you are unaware of what causes pregnancy, you should not be having any form of sexual contact, you are very misinformed, it is very sad, also for your knowledge, going to the bathroom a lot is caused by the baby applying pressure to the bladder, which can only happen later in a pregnancy, if you are going a lot you could have a STD, you need a check up

Answer 9

Sweetie, if you are a virgin. You arent pregnant. Stop taking pregnacy tests. If you are a virgin, you cant get pregnant! Especially when you say how careful you are about even touching. If you are worried about the wierd effects of your period, go to a doctor. He may perscribe you the pill to regulate things, and then you will never have to worry about being pregnant.
Many women are irregular, especially in the early years.

Answer 10

without sex pregnancy isnt possible, stop stressing--its not good for your body at all.

and to the girl who said if you have your period you aren't pregnant, this isn't entirely true, you can get a period while pregnant, usually in the first 4 weeks, but again, without sex pregnancy isnt possible.