but she is 3 months 3 weeks pregunt 1 year older than me and she is finna be in the 12th next year (just 1 grade ahead of me). my friends said i shouldent give her a chances becauses she already finna have a baby they think i should just leave her alone but i dont think thats the right thing to do can someone help me (give me some advise) P.S. but both of us are vary mature we both have our own car and we both have a job
2007-05-28 06:16:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if she was mature, she wouldn't be a pregnant teen.
2007-05-28 06:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by Peachie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it dude! She is looking for someone to blame this on or help her through this. She don't sound very smart. First thing she is pregnant and only seventeen. I see this all the time. Young people don't make it together. Lets say you to would do something crazy like get married because you feel sorry for her and want to help. Maybe you to are together for a yr or two and decide to get a divorce. If the real father does not pay child support you now will because you took responsibility for this child. DON'T DO IT. Just be a distant friend. Listen to an adult who has been around.
2007-05-28 06:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you are still way too young. If you're the father of the baby, you should focus on being a good father and let the relationship take its own course.
I don't want to sound like your parents, but a car and a job is not securing your or your baby's future. You should definitely concentrate on being a dad and going to college.
Trust me!!! Getting an education and being a dad is the BEST thing you can do right now. Sad to say but, relationships comes and goes.
Good luck
2007-05-28 06:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by jaji 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 17. Forcing someone into a relationship they do not want to be in is not a good thing. Let her decide. All you can do is ask. Just because you have a car and job doesn't make you mature and being mature is not saying you are responsible. She's got a lot going on now and you all up on her trying to get her to date you is not helping. Try being patient and supportive.
2007-05-28 06:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by Emmah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its not your baby then run like the wind... you are too young to be stuck with other people's responsibilities. If it is your baby then you need to provide a loving stable environment for your child. The best way to do that is to be a real family, so if at all possible you should work toward marrying this girl and loving her and your child. Again, if it is some other guys kid then you don't want the headache. there are plenty of girls out there that you can fall in love with, get married and make your own baby.
2007-05-28 06:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though you are mature, that cant stop you from having a baby! you should really leave her alone because you are too young and you might have a baby and i think you are too young to have a baby! and that will just hurt her more by having a baby! not saying that you will, just saying that it is a possibility and that is a big responsiblity to handel and really having a serious relationship with her!
2007-05-28 06:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bypass with your emotions, a existence time friendship could desire to be on the upward thrust with this woman. Her circumstances shouldn't intrude with your determination. She desires a "good" pal and it sounds as once you're a "smart" guy, and understand what's up! pals are marvelous to have, yet you may desire to make your guy or woman way and judgements in existence, not hear to the gang, or stick to them. you are able to close the door to a pair of existence's marvelous discoveries. Be risk-free, and you recognize what I mean, (wrap-up). Take this slowly and get each and every of the data - be certain she isn't finding for a "little one daddy"... there is already one -
2016-12-30 04:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she were so mature she wouldn't be a pregnant high-schooler. You my friend need to leave the babies having babies alone and concentrate in English class.
2007-05-28 06:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having a car does not mean you are mature. I suggest you put aside dating pregnant teenage mothers and enroll in a school that teaches better grammar and spelling.
2007-05-28 06:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by Thanatopsis2002 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Trying to read your question gave me a headache, you can check your spelling on here if needed.
Is it your child?
Don't throw away your childhood your only 17!
2007-05-28 06:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by Proud Mommy of 2! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she don't like you. If she is going to have a baby maybe she wants to be with the father of the child.
2007-05-28 06:19:32 · answer #11 · answered by randy j 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋