We are going out, I like him but she flirts with him a lot. When I tell her to stop she ignores me. She is happier when me and him are fighting and down when we're together, she can't accept I am going out with him, and he does not like her.
2007-05-28 06:09:46 · 27 answers · asked by shorty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I told her I liked him first!!
She just wants him to go out with her instead of me she has to deal with it!
2007-05-28 06:31:29 · update #1
wow that sucks
theres just a unspoken agreement between friends that you dont date the guys you both like. that takes the problems away.
2007-05-28 06:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then she is not ur friends. If she says she is than she would want to see u happy and obviously she dosent cause if she did she wouldnt flirt with him.... Just stay away u dont need friends like that!
2007-05-28 06:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by chiques29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a new bff. Tell her she will lose a friend if this keeps up. She should be happy for you - not competitive.
2007-05-28 06:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. were you dating him before she liked him? or did she like him for awhile and you just decided to go out with him?
if its the first dont worry about it. but if its the second then its wrong.
p.s. she doesnt sound like a very good best friend
2007-06-05 04:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by sassy33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your bff is not a good bff. Forget how she feeels and stay with him. You said you liked him first so he's yours. Your bff didn't care about how you felt about him. Forget her, both friends and boyfriends come and go. Don't worry.
2007-06-04 11:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can date the crush if you do not want to have a BFF anymore.. It is not a good idea and it creates jealousy..
2007-05-28 06:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by Redhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she really your friend if she can't get over it? i mean a friend would be happy for their bf to get the guy they like even if that means they have to give it up
i have been in that same spot before and me and my friend are still friends
hope it all works 4 u
2007-06-04 20:58:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my point of veiw I believe that it is disguting to date your best friends crush because if that was really your bff then you wouldnt do that to her and turn it around how would you feel if your best friend was going out with your crush hhhuuuuuummmmm I dont think you would feel very goodd would you nope so why do it to her
2007-06-04 13:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by hartfordmannie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine to date him only if you are prepared to lose your friend. You know she likes him, so why would you hurt her by dating him? I understand that you and the guy like each other but still! That's wrong to do your friend like that.
2007-05-28 06:13:56 · answer #9 · answered by ..... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay attention to her..if you like your bf more than your friend...then dont do anything together w/ ur friend and ur bf. She's jealous and just wants to get him for herself and prove to herself that she can get him. Apparently...she likes ur bf more than she likes you...so...u should just not talk to her...but if you still want to b her friend...do what you can. Good luck! <3
2007-06-04 10:22:36 · answer #10 · answered by izzyapark31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋