my mom is divorcing my dad and its really shaking me up emotionally. I dont wanna go to therapy or anything.....but theres still some romance. any date ideas for an 11 year old? [to do for her parents]
2007-05-28 03:25:10 · 6 answers · asked by mary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce is the one human tragedy that reduces everything to cash. Their relationship isn't just about it.
Plan a tour for them, on an island, resort or amazon
My preference would be a sea voyage, a cruise liner, how romantic ?
2007-05-28 03:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to step back from the situation. They are adults and they need to do this on their own. If you get involved, you are only setting yourself up for disappointment. The Parent Trap was a movie, and is not likely to happen in real life. Sorry.
Find someone to talk to. A family member, friend, school counselor, anyone. I have been through this before. It isn't fun, but you will survive. Just remember that your parents still love you, even if they can no longer be together. Good luck and stay strong!
2007-05-28 10:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by Mia1385 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son is 9. We divorced when he was three and I just re-married. Here is what I told him. We both love you alto, and you come first. But we both belive he will be happier and all us better off if his mom and I are appart. I know its hard for you to understand, but trust me in the long run your parents care for you and know whats best. my son is happy now you will be too.
2007-05-28 10:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by Love the west 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry to say this but u can't fix this b/c its btw them u know all u gotta do is pray to God to help u find peace and keep u strong, gurl u gonna fine after u ask for God's help aiight. wish u tha best, if pain doesn't kill u then it will make u stronger.
2007-05-28 10:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame yourself. People fall out of love. It's not your fault. You should accept professional guidance if offered.
2007-05-28 10:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something all three of you have to work out.
2007-05-28 10:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋