I have live in boyfriend yet ex from 22 years ago popped up in life and old feelings stirred can you really be in love with 2 people at same time?
2007-05-28 02:34:30 · 5 answers · asked by pawony40 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes I believe you can. Both for different reasons of course. The only thing is don't just jump for this guy that has reappeared from 22 years ago. Take things slow so you can make a solid decision on what you want to do. At the end of the day someone is going to get hurt if you pursue them both at the same time...and in doing so you will also feel the pain of losing one of them. Just take things slowly as you can never make a good decision by just jumping in.
2007-05-28 02:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by metimelovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't. You honestly can't.
Even if that guys came to your life after 22 years, it doesn't matter. It depends on the kind of relationship you are having and the memories associated to it and what are the special things you look for in your man.
Both men and women are psychologically pre-built in such a way that it impossible for one person to love two persons at the same time. Not only this, I believe that in you entire life there will only be one person whom you can truly love but rest are your stupidity or compromise with your own true feelings. You cant love someone just because someone else is in love with you. There are a lot of other factors involved before you can actually be sure, if you love someone. Feeling sympathy is not love at all. Love is literally something that you will feel the rest of your life even when he left you for some honest cause.
Thinking is all you need to do to take the right decision. Dont oscillate with your feelings
2007-05-28 04:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Simplicity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible. But your ex is the wrong choice. When you're in love with two people, listen to your good sense to guide you toward the right person. Unless your boyfriend is being bad to you, running off with your ex from some long ago is morally wrong. And you don't even know who your ex is anymore, do you?
2007-05-28 02:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-05-28 03:10:13 · answer #4 · answered by Wild Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not?
2007-05-28 02:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by acedelux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋