Talk to your doctor -- you may be going through some sort of pre-partum depression. Your doctor can recommend counselling. Counselling will help you find a way, and will help you deal with your feelings and emotions.
To tell you the truth, your baby if it was born right now would possibly survive. Even if you could find someone to abort it, you would have to live with that for the rest of your life.
Pregnancy is an emotional time -- you shouldn't have to go through it by yourself. Talk to *someone*. Other people have been in your situation before, and there's nothing new under the sun. You might not want your baby, but someone else might.
2007-05-27 23:20:57
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answered by Madame M 7
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I suggest you search the web to see what a 27 week old baby looks like. A complete and fully formed person. There is no natural way to "get rid of him or her". Women whose babies are born premature at 27 weeks pray that the baby will survive and today many do because of the advancement of science and medicine.
Do your baby and a woman begging for a baby a favor. Seek out a legal maternity home or adoption agency. Try looking on the Web and verifying with the Better Business Bureau or Attorney General of your state.
Every baby should be wanted and well cared for.
2007-05-27 23:50:29
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answered by Mardoe 1
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At this point it's no longer a question of morality, but of biology. If the baby comes out at this point it is a birth, not an abortion. If you really don't want the baby, adoption really is your only choice.
You don't tell us anything about yourself. Was this pregnancy something you wanted? If so, why are you changing your mind? It's normal to be scared and wonder if maybe you just made the biggest mistake in your life. Now that the pregnancy is this far along, you suddenly realize that this is really happening, you're going to have a baby.
Whatever your situation, you have to speak to a doctor, because you will have to deliver this child and you will have to make plans for that. They can adivise about your options for birthing, and can give you a referral for adoption if that's what you want to do.
But I would also hope that a competent and caring doctor will try to find out why this is happening to you at this point in your pregnancy. Whatever it is, I hope you can be helped, whether by counselling or medication or social supports.
Best.
2007-05-27 23:42:09
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answered by twosweethounds 4
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I agree with all those who said that the only natural way to get rid of it is to give birth. Aborting (if it were possible) would be killing it, absolutely.
My daughter was born (naturally) at 26 weeks...living and breathing and hollering. She is now 38 years old...
This child is a human being. You don't just dispose of a human being. There are plenty of loving parents that would take it.
Call right now. Find an agency that will help you. You will give the gift of life to a family.
2007-05-30 08:06:24
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answered by Ravenfeather 4
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Adoption is really your only option now. Once you pass the 3 month mark you can no longer get an abortion. Did you know that if a baby is born at only 24 weeks it has a very good chance it would live? So that means its no longer a fetus its a baby so it would be murder, not abortion. So I would look up a local adoption clinic or ask your local hospital about adoption services. Abortion only helps you but adoption helps you,your baby and the people who have wanted a baby for so long and can now have one because of you! Good luck!
2007-05-27 23:17:42
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answered by Misty B 3
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Well since abortion is not a natural process, then you owe it to your unborn baby to be as healthy as you can during this pregnancy,and then find somebody who is responsible enough to handle a baby. You were "adult" enough to get pregnant, why can't you be "adult" enough to take care of your responsibilities?
Give the child up for adoption, and give it a healthy start in life by eating right and not drinking or smoking while you're pregnant. You can go party all you want to after this baby is out of your life.
2007-05-28 00:11:12
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answered by spunion 4
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Why not give the baby up for adoption? My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for a while now and would feel blessed if I was pregnant. Are you healthy? Is the baby healthy? Do you know who the father is? Does he know? Why did you have unprotected sex if you did not want to get pregnant?
2007-05-30 13:49:17
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answered by Amanda E 1
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A natural way to "get rid of your baby"... is through the birth canal - and PLEASE GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION!!!!
PLEASE DON'T KILL YOUR BABY!!!
PLEASE!!!!!!!
You're almost done! You're at the begining of your third Trimester... just a little more! You can do it!!!
there are so many people out there wanting a baby!! THis is a real person, a human! Adoption is great b/c the adoption company pays for ALL of your medical bills too!!
At 27 weeks you could actually deliver your baby and it might even survive - it's a real live baby inside ot you!! Just give it a little more time to grow :) and PLEASE give it up for adoption :) PLEASE!!
2007-05-27 23:29:11
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answered by pumped up! whoo hoo! 3
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you are going through something. an emotional roller coaster? I guess put more thought into want you intend to do because "getting rid" of your baby will probably be a more difficult emotional problem later on.... get counselling. Im sure there will be someone whom you could share what you are going through. Give birth. Who knows everything will change once you see your own child. If not, then opt for adoption. Take care.
2007-05-27 23:28:01
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answered by miraclemarvin 1
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I'm sorry you feel this way while your in this situation.
Unfortunately you will have to carry them baby to term as it's to late for an abortion.
If you a genuine that you don't want the baby give it up for adoption. You will be giving the gift of a baby to a couple that can't have kids & they will be financally stable so they will be able to give your baby the life you can't. Also if you do want to stay in contact with the adoptive parents they will probably let you.
2007-05-27 23:27:23
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answered by Anonymous
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