A bloke i spoke to a couple of weeks ago said i shouldnt push my ex girlfriend and that i should let her get on with the other thing whatever she is at, and see if she comes back to me.
Thats easy said, but like i told him the other person is a girl! and my ex says she wants to experiment, i think i know her pretty well and she says shes bi, but the girl shes having this thing with instigated it and i think my ex is just confused as she says she loves this person. We still love each other, and went together near three years and its obvious to me and her that wer still in love, but she says she has feelings for two people now.
I feel like Ross out of Friends with his X!
What a situation!
2007-05-27 23:02:50 · 5 answers · asked by KatsLoveBug 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
So... Ex girlfriend going for another girl? Yea take this chance to do the same... find a nice guy and say you're in love with him. Ha ha... im kidding...sorta. Anyway, i really dont know what to say but you really cant control someone else. Just let her go through what it is and maybe she will figure out who she really loves in the future. It's hard to deal with something like that but it really is the only way (well... legally) to handle it. Ooooor... you could go the illegal way an kidnap her and force her to be with you forever and ever and ever... but that would be just plan wrong. Just let her go what she is doing. She should find that she cant really be with two people and hell maybe she will come back to you. Just dont try to be too over bearing about it... may push her away. Now if she's in a relationship just for sex then that is a different story... She may, if you ask nicely, allow for a threesome! LOL... just a thought ~_^
2007-05-28 00:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by LadyJayden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL yeah a bit like ross, ey?
neway i think you should know your girlfriend pretty well...if you think she's the type of person to *really* know what she's doing and doesn't rush into things...maybe she's right about the path she took...but if she's a person who doesn't think before she acts and likes to try different things often...she might come back to you.
why don't you take this opportunity to go wild as well...find a temporary gf or something...or go have fun living the single life.
2007-05-28 06:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What situation? She left you for another person she says she loves. I think your friend has the right advice. Stop being so available.
2007-05-28 07:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't care who they are or who their doing if someone wanted to go off and do something with someone else because they feel like their missing something being with me they can't come back.
2007-05-28 11:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by Treat429 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a bit exasperating, mate. And I really don't know what to tell you except perhaps if you really love her, wait and see. It might still work for you with her. Or it might not too.
2007-05-28 06:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋