By myself again. No desire to date at all. What should I do with all this time? Crying isn't the answer...but I do it a lot anyway.
2007-05-27 22:56:21 · 11 answers · asked by Tall Chicky 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
colleen....already did the first 2...working on the others.
2007-05-27 23:04:27 · update #1
Run through the house naked, scream at the top of your lungs. Go out and purchase a lobster and have a lobster feast with wine and bread. Join a church, join a gym, learn a new skill or hobby. Take classes at a local community college, learn a new sport, volunteer at a nursing home or local hosptial or even animal shelter. Adopt a pet. Eat ice cream out of the carton. Drink milk out of the carton. Stop crying.
2007-05-27 23:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl take this time to do you!!! Think positive thoughts, and do all the things that you wanted to do; travel, take classes, get a new hobby, just focus on you right now. Time heals all hurt, but right now know that you are on a mission to make you happy!!! Girl hold your head up high, go out with friends and live it up!!! Wish you much success in the future.
2007-05-28 06:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by Lil_MissVal 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Catch up on all those things that you didn't have time to do before. Take a trip. Take up a new hobbie. Volunteer work. Go to a SPA and have a complete makeover. Join a health club. Have a luncheon for/with your friends. Join a singles club. Join as book club. Invite friends to see plays and concerts with you. Play tennis (or take tennis lessons).
JUST DON'T FORGET TO TAKE ALL OF THOSE PICTURES AND REMINDERS OF HIM AND PACK THEM AWAY!! Don't torture yourself.
Been there--it just takes time to get used to it. Lately I have been avoiding getting into another relationship. I am really beginning to enjoy this freedom!!!
2007-05-28 06:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read, Write, Play Video Games, Watch Movies, Go out to new movies, listen to music, go to a concert, see a play, see a musical, clean, veg out, spend time with friends, take a class, move the furniture, redecorate, learn to cook a new dish, get a library card, pay off some bills, get out of debt...
2007-05-28 06:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by lyricshade2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with being alone. It will help you figure out exactly what you are looking for in your life. Hang out with friends but don't date until you feel like your feet are firmly on the ground and you know what you are looking for and what you are and aren't willing to put up with just to be with someone.
This too shall pass, and something else will take its place.
2007-05-28 06:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by hypno_toad1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your alone again, nows the time to put your life in order, start concentrating on your job, fix things around the house, go out, see the world as a single woman. your free, spread your wings, go out and have fun. sounds like you were miserable for a bit, so now go have fun.
2007-05-28 06:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by Lilkryptonite 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you are ready you will stop crying and you'll be back out there. Of course right now you hurt like anything but I promise the sun will shine again and so will you.
2007-05-28 06:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by Magster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find something to do that interests you and join a group that way you'll have something to do and a way to meet new people! Also make time and hang out wiv your friends!
2007-05-28 06:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by KittyKat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be glad you're alone and not putting up with someone else's crap that could drive you half insane. Peace of mind is what you need.
2007-05-28 07:26:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date, go to clubs, hang out with your family, got to church, go to movies, go to a theme park, go shopping, go on a strict diet, have some body work done, get a job, work overtime at your job, go to health clubs and work out, take yourself to spas, get a tan, love you body. If you love yourself than others will love you too.
2007-05-28 06:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by Cool guy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋