The man is married with 2 kids but also intrested in my sister. She loves him but afraid what might happen when she gets involved. The man loves his wife but loves my sister as well. She is confused because she is also in love with this man yet a brother to this man is also intrested in her. What must she do? Should she consider the brother and leave the married guy alone?
2007-05-27 22:27:57 · 19 answers · asked by princeb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well if he is cheating on his wife with her.. then doesn't she think that it is possible for him to do the same thing to her.
She should forget the married guy. If she likes the brother, then give him a shot.
2007-05-27 22:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me :) 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She needs to leave the married man alone. He will most likely never leave his wife. No matter what he says. He is in a comfortable place with his wife. It will just end in heartbreak for her. She should stay away from the brother as well because, then she doesn't have to see the married man and have all those feelings stirred back up.
2007-05-27 22:38:57 · answer #2 · answered by irish_pixie23 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is just plain wrong to be with a married man...period! He doesn't even know what love is if he says he loves both your sister and his wife. He is likely addicted to that "honeymoon" feeling of a different woman. A woman with whom he doesn't have to talk about the mortgage, bills, home repairs, etc. It's fresh and new...but not love. He needs to get his head screwed on straight and think about how he'd feel if his wife "loved" another man the way he thinks he "loves" another woman.
As for the brother. Too close to the fire. Being with him would mean being around the married one.
2007-05-28 01:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got 1 word for you my friend......DIVORCE. A man can have a great job, stay at home wife/mom, nice house, great kids, nice cars and be a loving, caring, compassionate and faithful man and all the wife has to do is fool around behind his back, ask for a divorce and now the mans life is in ruins. I'll man up and ask you this question: Why is it that 90% of the guys I know would love to get married but the women we date are only looking for a good time and then string us along until the "Next Great Conquest" comes along? Why is that?
2016-05-19 21:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldnt consider neither one. All or only trouble and heartache and possible confusion can come out of this. Truth is "Hes interested means hes only interested in being intimate with her". Hes married, final and point. Thats it. Once those words are spoken, hes married she shouldnt even be considering him. He is an inmoral, inconsiderate selfish man. And what kind of woman wants to just be a mistress? I mean there are plenty of men out there and even if he left his wife look at the circumstances she got him under, it wouldnt be long before he traded her in and became interested in another. The brother? hell no. The other guy would always be in the picture and it could possibly ruin their family relationship. I doubt they are the only two men in your city or town so no to either one.
2007-05-27 22:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to stop and think ~ there are innocent children here that did not ask for someone to step in and cause problems between their parents. For her to even consider getting involved with a married person is reprehensible !! And he doesn't love his wife if he would consider having an affair with someone else but she needs to tell him to go get counseling with his wife so they can work on any problems they have (mainly him). Even if he would leave his wife for her, he'd turn around and do the same thing to her. Beware of any man (or woman) who will cheat on their wife. They aren't faithful or loyal to anyone but themselves.
As far as the other brother, I hope if she decides to date and/or him she will stay faithful to him and never be alone with his brother. How that would devastate the family for them to get involved if she married the brother.
Personally, I think she needs to go find someone outside that family and make a life with someone else. She's asking for alot of temptation with either one of the brothers because it doesn't sound like she has much willpower or common sense about her. She needs to be more concerned about what God says abut all this because if she has an affair and/or breaks up any marriage, she has to answer for that.
2007-05-27 22:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her to stay away from both of them, especially the married one. The last thing anyone wants to do is break up a marriage, especially if there are childrene involved. If she gets involved with his brother then she'll have to see the married guy always and since she's in love with him then it won't be good for her because she needs to stay away from this man.
2007-05-27 22:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by don't stop the music ♪ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Advise your sister not to get involved with this man. He is out for one thing. If he is disloyal to his wife, he will most likely cheat on your sister. If the brother is single and available that's the better route. Do the rational and wise thing first, then go ahead.
2007-05-27 22:44:20 · answer #8 · answered by gone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your sister and the married man doesn't know what is love, which is going beyond the body. the married man likes her to enjoy sex with her without taking responsibility. sexual satisfaction is a satisfaction at a moment, for which marriage is not essential. whether your sister wish to have sex without responsibility, then she should carry on, otherwise she should leave him and get married with any another man.
2007-05-27 22:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by dattusingh p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should step away from it all Sounds like to many men in one family like your sister Sounds boderline creepy Have wipe the slate clean and get herself together before she starts looking for some one else
2007-05-27 22:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by chameleon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋