basically i'm saying that I have given all that I can myself,my heart and also my all. I really believe that I am and will make some man ral happy but I just have to find Mr. Right
2007-05-27 21:17:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to get a life woman! Focus on yourself and a good career. There's tons of men out there, when you're busy and do things you enjoy doing, you'll find a guy doing what you enjoy doing too...
And you're getting old, yes, you should be thinking about marriage but the problem is that it's out of your hands. That's why i say focus on yourself and being busy, eventually it will happen.
2007-05-27 21:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do you know who Mr Right is
You could be looking for a really long time
I find that people that wait for the right man or woman don't like the C word (commitment)
I have a friend who is 31 .. dated many times.. and just loves being single (all the attention)
Now she is looking to settle down and have children
Now she want to get serious
Now the men she really like are MARRIED
Yes you probably will make someone really happy
Just don't be so serious in the process of dating
Have fun and the right person will happen
What attracts a man is a confident, smart and sassy woman
Sounds like you are down in the dumps
Change the attitude and things will look up
2007-05-27 21:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go around looking to get married. Guys will spot that and run away. At least most of them will. I'm sure you will make Mr Right happy.. Just settle back and find someone to date. When I met my wife I wasn't looking for anything serious. In fact I basically wanted a one-night stand.. That didn't happen and we were married 7 months later.. Good luck
2007-05-28 02:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depend, if you are in those third world countryside like india, nepal, or africa..you are consider damn old already, marriage is history to you. For them, marrying at 16 is damn common, then in their late 30s, they become grandma. Still full of energy to care for the childrens.
But in a comospolitan country/state, it just right to get marry and borne childrens, the older you give birth, the more health problem you have, and imagine when you are 50 yo, your child maybe just 10yo running around.
Hope you find your Mr. Right fast ya. Be realistic, the older you go, the less attractive you are.
2007-05-27 21:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a man and you want to get married? Why? Do you want to marry someone because you love him, or do you love someone because you want to get married?
There is a difference, and the 2nd one is a terrible reason to get married. Nowadays, people don't give a lot of thought and just get married easily and divorced half as easily because they married for the wrong reasons.
You are not too young, it's the persistence that doesn't sound right... Don't look for a guy that wants to marry, look for a guy that loves you.
2007-05-28 12:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not too young at all but a word of advice dont focus on just getting married make sure that its the right man and dont scare him off with talk of getting married these things take time. You have lots of time to find the right man for you. good luck and be happy with or without a man!!
2007-05-27 22:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by Magster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a "Mister Right". You should be looking for someone you can live with, talk to, be around, argue with, and have sex with, all without hating them. And if you are really lucky, at the end of the day can do the most annoying, grossest thing you can think of, and you still don't want to kill them. What i'm saying is, marriage is as much about tolerance, acceptance, and sacrifice as it is about love and lust. When you find someone who you feel all these things with, then you're ready to make that commitement. Age has nothing to do with it.
2007-05-27 21:24:53 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are not looking for Mr. Right, but looking for Mr. Right Now. Slow down and get to know who ever he is before you marry. If you don't, you will be posting more questions on here. Something like, why am I so unhappy with my new husband ? Good luck !
2007-05-27 21:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by krash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what you mean by persistent. It's fine if you know you want to settle down and are only interested in having relationships. If you mean that you put pressure on the marriage part and aren't happy with less- no. That will scare guys away.
2007-05-27 21:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all
my mom got married when she was 22 and my parents are still married. This year will be year 24!
Happy searching and good luck!
2007-05-27 21:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by michie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋