how can i make marrige with my girl friend, because she belongs to other cast.?

Answer 1

Get married to her in court. Court marriage as you call it is solemnized under the Special Marriage Act, 1954 all such marriages can take place between any two Indian citizens as well one Indian citizen with a foreigner irrespective of their religion, caste or creed, and you can say this is the secular form of marriage available in our country. Such a marriage is solemnized before the marriage officer/registrar usually D.C. deputy commissioner of the area (Sub registrar/SDM is the marriage officer/registrar only in case the already solemnized marriage under any other Act has to be registered) where both or any of the parties to such a marriage reside permanently or for at least one month. Cost of such a marriage is merely Rs90/- or as the rate prevalent in your area. Now how you proceed? Both the parties to the marriage file a joint application before the marriage officer along with individual affidavit attested by notary public specifying the age(boy 21yrs &girl 18yrs), place of residence, marital status(unmarried or divorcee as the case maybe), mental status(not idiot or not with unfit mind), not related to each other. Along with this you have to give proof of age( School certificate, Passport,) , proof of residence(Passport, ration card, voters id card, PAN card, rent agreement) , & the application of such a marriage should be witnessed by 3 independent adult persons, affix one photograph of each of the parties & all the 3 witnesses. You have made such an application/notice to the marriage officer in person along with all the 3 witnesses. On receiving such an application the marriage officer issues a month notice regarding the intended marriage & get such a notice affixed on the notice board out side his office, a copy of such notice is sent to the marriage officer under whose jurisdiction the other party lives, also a copy is to the individual parties address. After expiry of the period of notice a date is fixed on which all the persons parties to the marriage & 3 witnesses appear again before the marriage officer who declare them married & issue a certificate to this regard. Incase of any objections raised the marriage officer will settle these objections. Now what can be objections that can be raised? These can ONLY BE REGARDING THE CONDITIONS NECESSARY FOR SUCH MARIAGE & NOTHING ELSE. What are the conditions? As I stated above i.e. Age, martial status, mental status, prohibited relationship (related to each other by blood). This is the brief procedure I have told you here, incase you want any clarification you can ask.

Answer 2

If you live in the USA. there is no caste system and apart from your families, you might be able to marry and live together if you do not have major differences in what you believe to be the correct way to live and to possibly, raise your children. However, if you live in a culture where caste is in practice, you are going to have major problems in bringing your two families together, raising children, socializing and working and for that reason, it may not work. There will be inside opposition to your marriage in a caste system.

Answer 3

Our politicians are to be blamed for this kind of mental attitudes. I believe our generation, particularly, the persons aged 20-45 years of age at this time, had forgotten the thing named 'caste' and thanks to persons like V P Singh & Arjun Singh, we are again aware of the distinction. I do not know for how long we shall continue to discriminate the human beings on the basis of caste & religion. Your parents are not to be blamed. Kindly try to convince them in your own way. If the boy is eligible and dependable, the caste does not matter. Would they allow & approve your marriage to an absolute cheat even if he is of your own caste? Have patience & convince them... MUST not act in a rash manner. You have not met the boy or his family personally. MUST check out the aspect before you decide. Net dating & net marriage are two different things. Life is very complex and it can not be compared with what you do on net.

Answer 4

intercaste marriages are not a big thing in our society now a days, there may be some hesitations and irritations from the part of our parents. so handle it very carefully, if you are financially sound then also in a marriage family support is essential. if you are not so serious then allow your parents for your girl that is beeter other wise you should be bold enough to handle the situations

Answer 5

People like u have no right to love and ruin anybody's life if you still have that typical stupid thinking. Next time check girl cast then ask your heart bell to ring for her.

Answer 6

I hope you can convince both your families. If the families are OK with it then you have a chance to have a happy marriage. Good luck and God bless.

In addition, don't worry about above comments from people who do not understand your culture.

Answer 7

Caste has nothing to do these days. If she loves you and you are also sure about your feeling, you have capacity to pay your bills then get married. Miya biwi razi to keya karega kazi... correct? Spartan

Answer 8

Are you loved that personality? then what is the problem. you should overcome all the hindrances. before that think twice. bcoz you are living by fighting with the society. can you do it? have you loved that personality of person? if personality, please don't take any risk. otherwise go ahead... moral support of so many people like me give you all strenght to proceed

Answer 9

simple its called intercaste marriage. if family or society is the problem then run away with her or if u have a daring convey ur parents.

Answer 10

What? Reword you question in to english next time. You can add more detail after the question you know..