I know this girl who I really want to be friends with but I want to be friends with her so bad that I am always nervous around her and thinking about what to say to her any advice?
We are decent friends right now but it is just cause we have classes together, i want to get to know her better so we can be friends for a long time.
2007-05-27 15:59:04 · 2 answers · asked by Sammyboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I too have the same feelings occasionally. Im nervous when I want to be with someone and always thinking of what to say on our next meeting. But I found the best way to handle this is to NOT think about it. Just let things happen unexpectedly. And in order for the two of you to become friends, you would want to have something in comon with her. The BEST thing to do is have a birthday party or some sort of gathering and invite her. And if youre ever nervous, take a deep breath and hold it in then exhale. Do this a few times (up to 10) and what happens is that it floods your blood stream with oxygen and it will relax you. It has the same effect as so many milligrams of a calming drug (I forget its name). But just relax and ask her if she has Instant Messenger, get her screen name. And dont be afraid to tell her you want to be her friend. "Hey Id like to to be friends with you, do you have instant messenger or anything?" That line will do it. Be a man you know, shes not gonna say anything rude. Oh and dont think of sex, that always clogs us guys' brain =). Good luck.
2007-05-27 16:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ertai2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about somethings new. dont ask personal question because girls dont like it as you are just a new guy for her.
2007-05-27 23:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by lost gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋