2007-05-27 15:18:01 · 13 answers · asked by Alakazam 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Take a deep breAth and start a new direction.
2007-05-27 15:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well what i find helps and may help you too is sit down in a quiet place where you can b alone for a bit.
Take out a piece of paper and pen and start writing down the goals you have and the things you want to happen and when.
Write down what you hope to accomplish in your life and what would make you happy.
Write it all down one by one!! And then sit back and read it!!
It helps when it is in black and white and staring back at you it makes it more real somehow.
When you are done then put it in order of what needs to be done first second and onwards.
You also need to be realistic and when things just dont fit then you need to rethink it and prioritise on which is more important etc.
Wish you the best!! dont stress!! You will be okay!!
2007-05-27 15:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by MichM 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
step away from the situation if you can. distance helps remove the influences that make critical thinking difficult. so often, we actually know what we need to do deep down. It's just hard or painful so we put it off. we know we will come out better once we fix the problems, but our natures are sluggish and tend to be afraid of the unfamiliar, even when the familiar is not right.
good luck to you.
2007-05-27 15:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by martinmagini 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well...thats an interesting question. I think different people do different things. I like to go to a very quiet place and sort out all the things in my mind and whats bothering me. Thats a process too cause it takes alot of energy to dwell and sort out those kinds of things. Just take your time and really dig down into your mind and be honest with you and your feelings. Its not always easy but it may help you...
2007-05-27 15:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by leave me alone 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Don't do anything. Give it a rest. Listen to your inner self and to your needs. You need to make things right within you before you can know what direction you want to go in. So stop, be still and be silent, clear your mind, and the answers will come.
2007-05-27 15:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
brother Steve i really get what your asking cause i was
in that boat not knowing where or what to do.
what you should do i think Steve is go to a Christan church
ask to speak to either a pastor or a fellow member of that church.
tell them your whole story of what's going on with you
pray with them.
and read a bible all of life's answer's are in the holy book
ask for peace,guidance,&direction from the lord with all your heart and he will grant you the thing's you seek.
that help's me steve deal with life knowing GOD is in control
and that he is with me and love's me
he also love's you brother steve and is with you.
for you are his child and want's the best for you.
brother steve GOD bless you in jesus name amen
2007-05-27 15:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
pray...and if you're not the religous type ask for advice from a good friend or family...and if you're not the sharing type....just relax, think things out and go with the most logical decision. good luck!!!!
2007-05-27 15:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Take a bubble bath!
2007-05-27 15:20:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
"The thought of suicide is a powerful solace: by means of it, one gets through many a bad night"
2007-05-27 15:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by Saint Christopher Walken 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you should write everything down: list things in pros and cons. When you see things visually, it helps.
2007-05-27 15:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by looking4aVacation 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋