HE claims we never dated but i know that we did. I wait for him to wake up and then i run off but i always leave a rose on the window seil. I want him and him only to have my babies. I need him to snap out of his crazyness and realize he wants to be with me and me only!!!!!!! what should i do?!?!
2007-05-27 12:37:29 · 18 answers · asked by britt g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Help is right you are storking him right so move on and do it quickly before you get caught and into trouble
2007-05-27 12:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by sarell 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay some of the people on here have it wrong. Just cause you cheat don't mean you don't love her. If I were to ever cheat on my girl it'd be so she knew how it felt when it was me! I mean was there any other feeling that matched how angry and rejected you felt when he did that? There's really no other way to know how it feels till it's you. AND IN HIS DEFENSE at least he didn't sleep with one of his ex girlfriends. How bad would how feel then? So no he'll never trust you the same IN WAYS. If you really wanna talk to that guy you're gonna have to find a way to see him in you're b/f presences. Try getting the mom some help so she can take care of HER kids. I know it sounds like something that you shouldn't have to do (and you shouldn't!) but if for no other reason do it cause you care about another human. It's hard to be in those situations and those kids need somebody to save them if she's as bad as you say. You sound like a couple that's divorcing...I think divorce ***** people over. you've been together for FIVE FREAKIN YEARS. You can talk to him. And I think you're as scared to talk to him as he wants you to talk to him. Long as you stay away from the other man (or men??) subject you should be fine. The mind is a powerful tool so use it to save the relationship you already have! You're b/f don't hit you and treats you mostly right he's not perfect (YET!) plus it's not like were mother Theresa either. What is it about that other guy that's making you want him? Talk to you're b/f try to bring back the "magic". Don't give up. Stick together.
2016-05-19 03:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by lourdes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all i am being as nice as i can be when i say sweetie that is called stoking and that is illegal in some states and if he wanted to he could press charges and put an order of protection on you. Now what to do instead send him an email or a letter or even call him and let him know that you really like him and that you feel that you two breaking was a bad idea and that you would like a second chance and if he gives you one then he might be the one that you will marry and all that jazz and if not then you need to move on and like my best friend used to tell me there is plenty of other fish in the sea!
2007-05-27 12:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by bella73106 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LET'S BE BLUNT. There's a word for this. It is called stalking and that is a crime. You should stop that because: 1) it is ethically and morally wrong! 2) you're wasting precious time. There is plenty of fish in the sea. He clearly does not share your feelings. He was honest about that. Now you be honest about it: HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU, need you or your babies! No matter how much rejection hurts, you have to BE AN ADULT about it. CRY AND MOVE ON, girl. If you have a hard time with what is going on in your heart and mind, get professional help.
2007-05-27 12:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by Val 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you really need to stop and start thinking better of yourself and stop stalking him. If he doesn't want you move on.
He might be unwilling to commit to you because he thinks you are crazy, or if you did date and you had sex with him and he is now denying ever dating you, he only wanted what you gave and he moved on.
Self Esteem is called that for a reason. People can't give esteem, only you yourself can give this to yourself. There is someone out there for you. Be patient and the universe will unveil this person to you in time. But in the mean time try to get these starker qualities of your in order. You are better than that.
2007-05-27 12:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by Native American Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some call you a stalker--but i can sort of relate. sure it is a little creepy what youre doing...ive never done that. but i do drive by my x's house A LOT. he never notices. he doesnt even know i exsist anymore. but girl...seriously get some help, ok? get out of town for a while, see a psychiatrist-- SOMETHING. time to move on. easier said than done, i know, but you need to try. hes not worth your time. and if you do feel the urge to look in his window....which is not right but anyway if you do, dont leave the rose. thats downright weird.
2007-05-27 12:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by Kendall :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to admit that you have a problem. You are a stalker. Then, you can do one of two things: Either
(a) seek an excellent shrink, or
(b) start thinking of ideas as to how to best decorate you future prison cell, as well as cute petnames for the burly woman who will be having her way with you during your prisonterm.
2007-05-27 16:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by LovablyMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that might work is be near him in things he is focused on, and casually have conversations about it and your point of view on that. It is funny but the best you can do to get him back is to have other guys going out with you and keep informal contact with him, always be happy, and ask for the less possible. Like the Beatles song says: "let it be".
2007-05-27 12:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jesús Ernesto Miguel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make someone love you so snap out of it, love yourself enough to know that you can survive on your own and find another man. IF you can't do this i suggest you seek the help of a professional.
2007-05-27 12:43:46 · answer #9 · answered by Ari 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is this a joke question.. cause it sure seems like a joke ....
but if you are serious.. then you are just a little teen.. and you have some growing up to do .. and someday you will look back and realize how silly you were... all you can really do .. is just stop..
hes saying he NEVER dated you.. shouldn't you feel bad enough already.. don't make it any worse for yourself.. just move and pretend you dont know who he is..
2007-05-27 12:41:28 · answer #10 · answered by lilchikka2005 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um u need 2 go 2 a doctor cuz u need a reality check and I mean fast! sry but girl if he wanted 2 b with u, dont u think u would be with him right now? yea so forget about him, and find sum1 else!
2007-05-27 12:51:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋