I feel wierd...?

Question

For mature people only, I will report those who aren't.

Ok, I almost feel like I shouldn't ask this question because so many people are going to criticize me.
I like really kinky sex, sometimes rough and physical, but it is only in the bedroom and nowhere else. I have never been beaten or abused, neglected, nothing of that sort, I just like it, and I don't feel horrible when doing it, I don't feel like it's bad for me, I don't think that it is bad for me because it doesn't bother me, but I would like to know if this is something that is normal? I mean, usually a girl will only be this way for having a terrible past, but that's not my case, I just like it and I don't want to feel alone and wierd and sick.
It also doesn't happen all the time, so it's not something that is continual. I have a wonderful fiance, whom wouldn't dare do it outside the bedroom, and we have a very passionate relationship beyond this. I am otherwise very normal in my point of view and others.

Again I have never had any troublesome past experiences that would trigger this behavior.

Answer 1

you are so absoulutely normal beleive me, many many people have fetishes in the bedroom its what excites them. you sound like you have a great head on your shoulders and what one person likes someone else does not. if it works for you and your fiance great! sometimes role-playing in the bedroom is a safe way of getting out aggresions that you would not normally do in life. i think you will be more of a balanced person for it. don't worry your fine~

Answer 2

The sex drive of humans is unique.
We can become aroused without any external stimulation and often find unusual or dangerous situations as stimulating as sex itself.
You are normal, but how can normal even be classified when human beings display such a variety of proclivities?
Its just as normal to have an interest in the same sex, or no interest at all!
The complexities of our neurological systems make sexual preferences a combination of any and all genetic and experiential (and experimental,) factors contributing to our perspective and state of mind at any given moment.
The only unusual thing is that you seem overly concerned that you like it rough...Sex is by its nature a violent act, at least physically (the first time usually causes bleeding in women.)
One other comment...
If you like kinky sex in private only...It stands to reason that you may like "normal" sex in public! ;P

Answer 3

Im no expert but it is totally normal to have these types of likes in sex it's when you can be more adventurous, as long as you keep it safe and you and your paterner know how to not let it go to far then its fine.

Answer 4

To each their own girl,if you like it and are not harming yourself or anyone else..the kinkier the better.

Answer 5

Well then you are asking answers!!!