I sat with this girl in lunch at school one day, we knew eachother as acquaintences before, like we would say Hi to eachother & get along good, so then when I saw her at lunch, I decided to sit with her & asked her, do you mind if I sit down?, & she said "sure go ahead", in a very nice way, we had a conversation, like getting to know eachother more, she already had a boyfriend, I didn't really mind that, cause I just wanted to be friends, so I let her have my phone number instead, she didn't at all mind that, then we left cause we had class to go to. The next day on MySpace I found her MySpace profile & sent her message saying" Hi (her name), it's (my name) from school, I hope everything is going great & you have an awesome summer, take care", then I sent a friend request along with the message, the next day I checked my sent messages & my message to her was only read & she denied my friend request. Now I have my feelings hurt, all I wanted to be was friends.
2007-05-27 12:18:08 · 13 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I feel my luck with girls isn't improving that much, I feel i'm never gonna have girlfriend(not just for sex), someone to relate to & have fun with, & I'm gonna be 20 next year in January. I hope I didn't approach her in the wrong way.
2007-05-27 12:19:27 · update #1
Its ok 19 is young...there will be other girls and its just myspace dont take it personally...
2007-06-03 17:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by shakursraven 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are trying to push things to fast and it has made her feel a bit uncomfortable especially seeing that she has a boyfriend. If you have a look at how you tried to get her as a friend, you will see that you crowded her too quick ( and believe me I am no expert on this ), but you sat with her at lunch, had a discussion about being friends , gave her your phone number and then sent her messages on myspace. You are pushing it just a bit too hard and fast, back off a little and let things take its time. Also don't go putting yourself down , and giving into false thoughts of not having someone, life is full of knock backs and ups and downs, just persevere and things will come together for you.
Don't despair because you give a care, keep your chin up.
2007-05-27 13:35:38 · answer #2 · answered by mrlonely_solonely_immrlonely 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't take MySpace so seriously. I have one and I only add people that I know really well and talk to on a regular basis. It's not personal, it's only MySpace. She may not have added you for that reason, or she may feel like by adding you that she would be leading you on or something. Maybe you should just tell her that you are only interested in being her friend and apologize if you came on a little strong. Women in serious relationships sometimes overreact a little to anything that looks like a potential threat to their relationship. It's human nature to protect what you care about. Also, she just may not want to be your friend. It's no big deal. Just try to get past it and move one. life is too short to dwell on such things.
2007-06-04 08:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she probably thought that you came on too strong or seemed to like her a little too much at first sight. By finding her on myspace may have given her a thought that you were obsessed with her. She may have only been being nice in accepting your number and letting you sit with her. I'm not a mean person and the same scenario happened and i reacted the same way because I thought this way.
2007-06-04 11:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're young, don't feel that you might never have a girlfriend. The right girl is out there for you.
As for this girl in myspace, don't take it personally. There are a lot of reasons she didn't accept your friend request. First, her boyfriend might have access to it and it was her boyfriend who rejected it. Second, this girl might not want to add guy friends in her MySpace because her boyfriend might get jealous. Third, she just might not be into you. You might have scared her a bit, knowing that she has a boyfriend and she's not interested in dating anybody.
Just wait for the right girl, never settle. Good luck :)
2007-06-03 23:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude! you are only 19. Believe me life is not over. this lady you are talking about is your age? If so she is just a girl. And she will be for another 5-6 years. I remember meeting 21 year olds who still had that bitchy high school attitude.
(Sheesh!!! grow up I would think). You watch. Women will start coming to you. Just don't be pushy about it. Just be yourself. And don't worry about some stupid answers I have read about you being ugly. I once told a friend of mine... That a friend of ours is proof that you do not need to be handsome to get a beautiful women. Because he did. do not worry about looks. Woman like strong character. Take courage, you have plenty of time.
2007-06-03 12:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by Strong but fair 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should just deny it if you don't want them on your friend list because believe me, if you're not sure about it and you accept, more than likely they'll just end up another name on your friend list who you'll never really talk to and probablly won't remember anyway. From experience it gets pretty annoying to have to go through the friend list and clean out the ones who you you never talk to.
2016-05-19 03:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there might always be that her boyfriend found out about you and he doesnt like that...
Or maybee she is Shy && Doesnt think she knows you that well..
Whatever her reason is Myspace is so dumb people get way over there heads on that... i mean they
-stalk there exs
-put stupid picatures of them
- and also get so mad over TOP FRIENDS.
Talk to her on the phonee.. it will be fine.
Telll her you just wanna be friends maybee she misunderstood that...
-- Good Luckk --
<3
2007-05-27 12:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
see ur attitude is good to go on making friends but when someone doesn't like to be ur friend then what's going to happen even without liking she became a friend of you.
see now don't bother about this and get going to make new friends
2007-06-03 22:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a boyfriend and they might be serious. Her boyfriend might have issues if she adds a "guy friend" on her account. Don't take it personal. You might consider moving on.
2007-05-27 12:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋