I told her she was crazy, she told me the reason why because he told her he loved her and I told any guy will say that just for whats in between your legs also I told her that he trick you into having sex with him.
2007-05-27 12:04:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
YOU ARE SOOOO RIGHT!!
She's lucky to have such a good friend to go to for advice. It is obvious you genuinely have her best interests at heart which is why we ALL need a best friend!
Now- she doesn't seem to be listening very well right now. I hope she was smart enough to have at least used protection.
tell her you will always be her friend but you hate to see her making such poor choices for herself.
Tell her that she deserves so much BETTER than someone who wanted her to do something that is supposed to be reserved for married couples. (Source- GOD and the Bible)
tell her to use protection if she continues to sin this way and go with her to buy it if she's afraid or embarassed.
Tell her not to have sex again unless he uses a condom at least- if he won't then she knows for real that he doesn't care about her AT ALL. If he does, then at least you and she will know he cares about her a little bit.
2007-05-27 12:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by Gypsianna P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You left off the fact that her self respect will go down the toilet and once you give it away you can't get it back, so make sure it is the right thing to do.
I think, however that all our advice is a bit too late at this point. All you can do is be a friend and support her.
Tell her that there are ppl in this world that don't have sex unless married and we don't explode...I am one of them. I was a virgin when I got married and it was one of the best gifts I could have given my hb...he was a virgin too, imagine that...2 virgins marrying each other...we are a dying breed.
Oh, btw, I got divorced 2 years ago and have not had sex since my divorce was final, nor will I untill if and when I ever get re-married.
2007-05-27 19:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's tough when you KNOW you are right about something but your friend just will not listen to your sound advice. My advice to you is just to let experience be her teacher in this one. She's gonna hear only what she would like to hear at this point. She's believing that this guy loves her because he told her so and nothing will change her mind about that. At this point, negative comments may only damage you and your friend's relationship. Just be there for her if she needs you. Be a supportive friend. You don't have to agree with her decision just respect it because in the end you'll be the one to pick up the pieces if he ends up breaking her heart.
Good Luck. Hope this helps!
2007-05-27 19:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not much you can say just remind her of the importance of safe sex and be there for her should it all go pear shaped
and you really need to stay out of it this is not your problem it is hers and she is ruining her reputation and 4 weeks i would only have sex after like 5 years she is putting her self in danger she is a hoe slut whore
2007-05-27 20:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U best tell her to have pregnancy test if she (or her boyfriend) didn't use protection.
But 4 weeks ain't that bad. How do u know he doesn't really love her? I'd say give the guy a break man.
2007-05-27 19:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah , tell your friend to tell her boyfriend a one month later that she thinks she is pregnant and see his reaction. If he loves her for all the right reasons he will support her and then a week later she can say that she thought she was pregnant and that she just started her period.....That will keep his wang in his pantelones for a while!
2007-05-27 19:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by neneamaya 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would stay out of it support her decision that was her choice to do that and you can't change what already happened so worrying about something you can't change that could end your friendship is not worth it let her know your worried but don't make it sound like you don't support her
2007-05-27 19:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by x0LBaBy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her she should of thought twice and was it worth it to lose all respect for herself lets see if he calls her after then shell know she made a big mistake
2007-05-27 19:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by hottieocgurl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whats done is done. She is no longer a virgin and nothing can change that. Now that she is sexually active she needs to use protection.
2007-05-27 19:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by anessa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get a pregnancy tests and STD tests. If she tests positive and is under age, get a lawyer. If she is not under age, do it anyway.
2007-05-27 19:16:55 · answer #10 · answered by marchhare57 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋