he has a gf aswel but only on msn and there is abit of a age diff he is 16 and im 13 so what can i do?
2007-05-27 09:32:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet ➔ MSN
YOU ARE 13!!!!!!!!!! ARE YOU NUTS???? go to the mall and pick up boys there geez! DO NOT MEET THIS PERSON!
2007-05-27 09:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are all kinds of reasons why msn and the web in general are not a good place for you hunni.
From the questions you've asked on here it seems you may have a low self esteem and a poor image of yourself.
For your own safety at your age you should NEVER meet anyone off msn - not even with a friend along. It's dangerous enough for full-grown women, let alone someone young and vulnerable.
I know it's hard and you want to feel someone thinks of you as special. Well I've got some news for you - See the answers you're getting on here? We ALL think you're special hunni. That's why we're telling you these things. We sense you're feeling a bit lonely and a bit down and we want you to know we care.
Please don't throw yourself at any boy, wherever you meet him.. You will only end up hurting more than you do now.
Just from the couple of questions you've asked, it's clear that you are a nice girl and, if allowed, will soon grow into a nice young woman.
Your hormones are on overtime. Try to find a healthier outlet for this pent up energy.
Talk to an adult you respect - If you can't speak to your parents then talk to a teacher, doctor or even someone from the church. There are girls older than you who have been through what you're going through - there's nothing new under the sun. You're not alone, you're following a well-trodden path and you can make it through this. Don't be too afraid or shy to ask for help.
I've had two daughters who have grown into fine, independant, woman, one of whom has children of her own now. We went through the same things you are.
Don't worry. You're going to be fine
xx
2007-05-27 09:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by Kes51 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't recommend relationships online, because you dont know how the person really is. Also, I don't know how much "in love" you are with him, because it's hard to love someone you've met on the internet, but as for tips, i'd just try becoming better friends with him. If he sees that you're always there for him even when he has relationship troubles, he might be able to see how great you really are for him.
For the time being, however, I recommend staying friends with him. Online relationships are really difficult, especially at your age, so I recommend having a friend-to-friend relationship with him and a more intimate relationship with someone you see more often, like someone from your school.
2007-05-27 09:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by YanksFan223 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah! hold up there missy! Only on msn? no, that's not good, I mean, as far as you know he could be (not saying he is) a rapist or something! But if you so badly love him so much you GOTTA make him like you, try asking to exchange pictures. I do that with my friends...(that reminds me, I gotta send my boyfriend more pics of me)and about the age diff, my boyfriend is ALMOST sixteen and I'll be fourteen soon. Well yeah, good luck! hope it works out!
2007-05-27 09:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by Alexandrianna 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My advice for you is to not fall in love with this guy. He could be a sexual predator, and lying about his age. You may claim that you "trust" him and "believe" that he is actually is 16, but he could be someone much, much older. You are also only 13, you may fall in love with a whole bunch of other boys before you know it. I think that the best thing for you is to just be friends with him. Don't put yourself in a dangerous situation. Sexual predators are everywhere. Be safe.
2007-05-27 09:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should never trust anyone you meet on line,you know absolutely anything about him,he could be stringing you along with a pack of lies and really at your age you must of heard all the bad stories about online chat.Back away and meet some real people instead.
2007-05-27 09:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok theres alot of things rong with this...
1) ur only 13! ur definetly not in love... especially if u nvr met him b4
2) ok $lut alert! ur 13 nd hes 16! plus he has a girlfriend... back off
3) this is so dangerous u shldnt b talking to people on the internet that u hvnt met
try meeting a real guy that u no, is closer to ur age, and dsnt have a gf... give up on him idiot
2007-05-27 09:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by Alaura 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
have you met this guy ? if not how can you believe he is who he says he is. anyone can send pictures to you from Msn or email. i suggest you keep away forget and go out and find a guy you have met on a chance or from school. talking to guys or girls on msn if you dont know them can be very dangerous.
2007-05-27 09:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by JAY JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey be careful have you meet this boy who says his 16 ? don't jump in to anything like going to meet him make sure you tell someone about him too because you don't no him his only on msn he could be anyone i all check my sons msn and he is only 13 .I'm just a mum who cares please be cearful xx
2007-05-27 09:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by maria m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mmmmm u can do alote of things sand he a lovly song that in it got the name love and try talk to him on msn on his favorite subdject or play a multyplayer game with him like www.puzzlepirate.com and there is more if at school u did some thing nice sand a pic or some thing u did good luck u merry him hehe!! :) (what about i be ur bf and not him joke joke joke)
2007-05-27 09:38:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummm try and chat with him some more, dont be in a hurry to meet him, until you really know him. and you might not be that in love with him. maybe hes extremely cute or something? thats not love...:P altough it feels a lot like it. u CAN fall in love with someone over the internet. but really, dont. its a hassle and rarely go well. internet love mostly ends in heartbreak or someone goes missing :P
2007-05-30 17:59:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋