we can't do it at my house or at his house and i would feel like a **** doing it in the back of his car. so he came up with the idea of going to a motel for a few hours.
do you think this is a good idea?
2007-05-27 09:12:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I have a hunch that you're not really ready for this - your first time, right? Wait another 6 months & see if you still feel the same way.
2007-05-27 09:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by Husker41 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd Imagine that your Morals are sound enough That it would make you feel like a **** in the Back of a car. Then Sneaking off off to a Motel won't be much better for you either. If the One you love is True to You Then waiting won't be a Problem. When you know in your heart its the right thing for you, Then the When and where will Not be a Problem. I know it isnt easy to wait till your married, but truth is you can learn a lot about your true love by finding out whether or not not giving in is concern enough to call it quits.
whether you do or not isnt as much an Issue as just KNOWING for sure that its the right thing for you :-)
Age isnt the Factor you should consider. How will you feel about your morals your going against?
Good Luck
2007-05-27 16:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by D B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no difference between a motel or the back seat of the car...
EDIT:
Try to respect yourself... if he really likes you then he can wait.
2007-05-27 16:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Motel,back seat,on top of a mountain,just use protection.Take care.
2007-05-27 16:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you shouldn't you are both too young. i say that because once a guy have sex with a girl they leave them and you dont hear from them. also dont fall for "If you love me, you will prove it to me" that just what guys say to get in your pants. if they love you they would wait until you are ready. How long have you guys been together? but if you still plan to have sex use protection.
2007-05-27 16:20:07 · answer #5 · answered by mecarela 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you put as much thought into the doing of it as to the where. Wherever, whenever- use a condom!
2007-05-27 16:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by IvebeenAbadbadgrl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a great idea. It's "nasty" which is a turn on, it's anonymous and, if you can afford it, go to a nice one. If you go to a cheap one, bring your own quilt.
2007-05-27 16:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you could find time to do it in someones house(yours or his) when there's no1 home or something....
i don't know this motel idea seems kinda slutty to me....but that's just me... :)
2007-05-27 16:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
No. Wait for marriage. It'll be better.
2007-05-27 16:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by kiwi 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you're married, the sex will be better.
2007-05-27 16:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by Aubrey and Braeden's Mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋