i have a feeling for a girl in our group of friends. i consider her as a special one. she considers me as a friend and not a special one. what should i do to turn her attention towards me? we have been friends for three years now. i din have any feeling for herr for the past two years but now im in love with her. is it wrong? how will my other friends react when i disclose this matter to them??
2007-05-27 08:09:19 · 8 answers · asked by steven s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No loving a girl who is well known to you is not at all a mistake...But some may feel it is bad and some may not...You should propose your love to her like how much you loved her and why do you love her and what you can do to her and make her convincing politely and gently..And it depends on her of how she feels about you personally..So try to know her feelings about you...Other friends will be either happy or sad depending on their individual thinking...All the Best....
2007-05-27 08:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by sriram t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Re: -" how will my other friends react when i disclose this matter to them??" - I loved this sentence. It reminded me of books I've read about India.
However, I digress: Why should you give a toss WHAT others think about your feelings for another person! All that matters is that you feel as you do naturally - not because of what others may think or wish you should feel. I bet you do n't choose who they love or hate because it's none of your business.
What IS your business is your feelings towards this girl. If you have been friends for three years you should feel on comfortable enough terms with her to ask, "Hey, do you fancy us taking in a movie on our own sometime?" Or something similar.
You should be able to take it from there with no problem as her reply and the way she gives it should tell you if you are likely to get lucky or not.
2007-05-27 08:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by lulu a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date. If she accepts and you have a good time, ask her on another and yet another as long as she keeps accepting. Eventually, she will either stop accepting your invitations or move to the next level with you.
Oblique approaches never work in romance. A direct approach may lead to rejection, but even then it saves you years--three now you say?--of agonizing over the situation.
2007-05-27 08:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by nightserf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should not be worried what your friends will think. I think you should talk to her alone and let her know that you like her more than just a friend and would like to try dating. Ask her to go to the movies or out to dinner with you sometime. The worst thing that can happen is that she will still be your friend!!!
2007-05-27 08:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by Gina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude be honest and open with the girl, I would think your friends should be happy for you both ! Being alone is only a couple of letters away from lonely !
2007-05-27 08:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could take her out to the movies or take her places and act more intrestedd and listen to what she has to say.
2007-05-27 08:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ natty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong.If your friends are true friends they will stand beside you.
2007-05-27 08:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.flirting.com
It is your business, not your friends.
http://www.teenrelationships.org
Be playful! Good luck!
2007-05-27 08:13:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋